Guys, Can someone help me w this situation?

Question

please? its about sone guy. i need advice

Answer 1

Xper 2

You try to initiate the conversation instead of waiting for him and see the response, if it's good then you're ok
If his response kinda seems like dull , then he's not interested anymore

Asker

7 mo
oh mhh did u read my comment? loo
just_a_hooman

7 mo
Yeah I did read it ,
I shouldn't have?🤔
Asker

7 mo
its ok its fine xD and i read somewhere to not talk to him until he comes to me. see, he would always talk to me... i would never do anything
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just_a_hooman

7 mo
That is something I'd do myself i. e. not do anything myself and wait for them to make the move,
But I gotta tell you it backfires sometimes, they too don't make any move and the thing that you have ends😳
Asker

7 mo
well wouldn't that mean he wasn't really interested if he didn't make the move? (knowing he ALWAYS would contact me 1st)
just_a_hooman

7 mo
Maybe he was interested but got tired of always having to contact first and wanted to see would you try to initiate a conversation if he didn't , like to see if you like him too or are just replying him out of friendship
Trust me men don't always like to make the move
Asker

7 mo
he knew i liked him bc i would always ask when u would see him and he always had things that would come up. he ended our streak but later sent me a few snaps but he hasn’t sent me anything else... that just gives me vibes that he's not interested whatsoever. he does however look at all my stories on instagram and snapchat right when i post them. maybe its bc he's always on?
just_a_hooman

7 mo
Yeah, that could very well be a possibility

Answer 2

Asker

oh mhh did u read my comment? loo

Answer 3

just_a_hooman

Yeah I did read it ,
I shouldn't have?🤔

Answer 4

Asker

its ok its fine xD and i read somewhere to not talk to him until he comes to me. see, he would always talk to me... i would never do anything

Answer 5

just_a_hooman

That is something I'd do myself i. e. not do anything myself and wait for them to make the move,
But I gotta tell you it backfires sometimes, they too don't make any move and the thing that you have ends😳

Answer 6

Asker

well wouldn't that mean he wasn't really interested if he didn't make the move? (knowing he ALWAYS would contact me 1st)

Answer 7

just_a_hooman

Maybe he was interested but got tired of always having to contact first and wanted to see would you try to initiate a conversation if he didn't , like to see if you like him too or are just replying him out of friendship
Trust me men don't always like to make the move

Answer 8

Asker

he knew i liked him bc i would always ask when u would see him and he always had things that would come up. he ended our streak but later sent me a few snaps but he hasn’t sent me anything else... that just gives me vibes that he's not interested whatsoever. he does however look at all my stories on instagram and snapchat right when i post them. maybe its bc he's always on?

Answer 9

just_a_hooman

Yeah, that could very well be a possibility

Answer 10

jimmy2 | 613 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Yes you need to tell whats going on foe men to advise

Answer 11

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

alright, spill the beans

Answer 12

JCT666 | 809 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Okay, what is your question?

Asker

7 mo
I talked to this guy since feb. things were great. he would hit me up always.
weird thing is i would ask to meet again and he always had stuff to do which he did but yeah he kept hitting me up all march.

we had a streak on snapchat and we would just snap each other. he ended the streak. after he sent me like 3 things probably 2 days ago. after that nothing. he hasn't asked how ny day was or anything... so I don't know...

has he lost interest?

he's usually always the first one to see my snaps tho.

its sad how he went to my best friend on snapchat to not best friends and w/o a streak... so yeah..

do i just ignore and let him come to me again?
Asker

7 mo
haven't talked to him in 2 weeks lol other than random dumb snaps he sent 2 days ago
JCT666

7 mo
If he had stuff to do as you were saying, then maybe he is likely focusing on that, so don't take it personally. Why don't you start being the one to message him first now? Play the game your way.

Answer 13

Asker

I talked to this guy since feb. things were great. he would hit me up always.
weird thing is i would ask to meet again and he always had stuff to do which he did but yeah he kept hitting me up all march.

we had a streak on snapchat and we would just snap each other. he ended the streak. after he sent me like 3 things probably 2 days ago. after that nothing. he hasn't asked how ny day was or anything... so I don't know...

has he lost interest?

he's usually always the first one to see my snaps tho.

its sad how he went to my best friend on snapchat to not best friends and w/o a streak... so yeah..

do i just ignore and let him come to me again?

Answer 14

Asker

haven't talked to him in 2 weeks lol other than random dumb snaps he sent 2 days ago

Answer 15

JCT666

If he had stuff to do as you were saying, then maybe he is likely focusing on that, so don't take it personally. Why don't you start being the one to message him first now? Play the game your way.

Answer 16

boggboss | 4.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Sure thing

Answer 17

Malachi69 | 51 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

He's might be taken

Answer 18

simplelikeme

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