Why is he like this?

Hey all,
So I know a man from church and I am just curious about something.
He says that he wants a relationship one day but doesn't put himself out there, isn't on any apps, isn't interested in any of the girls at church (we have gorgeous girls) and seems to hang out with more men. I am not implying anything.
His last girlfriend was over 7 years ago. I know men dont turn off sexually. He is very involved at church and works there.
What is his deal?
Why is he like this?
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