But why would he feel intimidated? Intimidated of?
Intimidated means as I said in a good way.
I mean say he sees you as someone who takes charge and is assertive and as a woman if you do that it will make you more attractive and appealing in the eyes of the shy guy.
I apologize maybe I am using the incorrect term here. I think it would be wrong of me to use the term intimidating.
It would be like the shy guy will see you as someone whom he can take a step back and relax because you are there to take initiatives.
It’s respect and nothing more.
Don’t worry a shy guy will never see you someone easy. If he is genuinely shy then on the contrary he will ensure that you don’t wait long for your responses.
Was I clear now? Did you understand?
How do you know all of these? Are you a shy guy too?
@Hshsjsjsjs “ How do you know all of these? Are you a shy guy too?“I will be honest with you. Firstly the answer to your question is NO, I am not a shy guy. The truth is I am a highly reserved guy/man.I am sure you know the difference between being shy and being reserved? Both are not the same.Secondly, over the last 13 years I have read plenty of articles on love, relationships and different types of men and also I have read and understood about shy type of men also. Hence I have quite a lot of knowledge on this.Thirdly, in real life till now I have come across at least 15 shy guys so far, no I didn’t know them personally but in college they were in my class. When I started working there were some employees who were quite shy and so throughout my life from academics to work life I have actually observed these shy guys and so I know them. The traits are the same.No, I never had any friends who were of shy type.
@hshsjsjsjsJust think if I was a shy I wouldn’t have the courage to answer your question in such a detail and won’t have enough confidence to express myself in this manner.Right?
@hshsjsjsjs@hshsjsjsjsDoes this answer your question? Does this satisfy your curiosity?
I'm just worried the assertive trait will scare him since most guys usually want to be the chaser or stroger one in the r/s, I mean like they want to portray to the girl that she can depend on him..
@Hshsjsjsjs No, it will not as long as you don’t do it in a scary manner. Don’t show that you are clingy,If you show genuine interest and assertiveness they will never think like that. They will never mind.
@Hshsjsjsjs “ I'm just worried the assertive trait will scare him since most guys usually want to be the chaser or stroger one in the r/s, I mean like they want to portray to the girl that she can depend on him..”You are taking about assertive/take charge type of men and shy guys don’t fall in that category.You should have understood this by now.
But how can I tell whether he personally likes it?
Well if he keeps talking you should be good
But why would he never initiate one first though?
Well you said he shy so probably don't know what to say
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