It's actually hard to believe that it never goes away even after months... perhaps he really likes her?
It's happened to me so I can tell you first hand. Even if it's over a year whenever I run into her again and we talk for like 5 minutes all the feelings I had suppressed and believed I moved on from just come flooding back. When someone has real feelings they never dissapeare
How can i differentiate whether he has feelings or love for the girl?
A man who has a woman in his heart will fight the world to protect her and carve out a space for her in his world. He wakes up with her in his thoughts and goes to sleep with her in his mind before he sleeps whether he is with her or on the other side of the world. A man who has feelings spends his time distracted and unsure but keeps the woman stringing along with a few words of love and a few trinkets to keep her interest but is not taking her into his life. Does this make sense?
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But won't he eventually fall for another girl throughout the time when they don't see each other?
Depends on the person, some are loyal some aren't. I can't say for your case since I don't know the guy you are asking about. Sounds like you are into him and want to keep this guy. If he is also into you, just give him enough attention and care, if he is loyal I don't sew why this wouldn't work out. Reality though, if he meets another attractive girl and sees her daily. That can developed into something more. Same goes for you. That's how attraction works. But then again, no trust no relationship.
"Guys will think about her more"But won't he fall for another girl throughout the months or years of not seeing her?
How about you personally?
Frankly speaking i had crush on one of my senior when i was 16 we used to have late night conversation like everyday but then suddenly she stopped texting me and she disappeared for 6 months and i was totally broken and during that period of time i really missed her, but when she returned back i didn't even talk to her since she left me alone when i needed her the most 💔 i still remember her
Have you seen her throughout the years?
No I haven't seen her for more than 5 years now
About me?I never had any crushes in my life. Never. That is the truth. However, to tell you honestly once I did come across a really gorgeous looking woman with extremely short, BOY CUT hairstyle and I was just stunned by her beauty. Yes, I did look at her from a distance and enjoyed her beauty but that's it and nothing more. Just a random stranger woman.Only happened once in my life and saw that woman only for 5 minutes. I was 29 years old back then. I am too logical and rational so I am immune to LOVE and crushes.That's my honest reply. Does that answer your question satisfactorily?
How do you find a partner in life then?
I don’t, I won’t and I don’t care. I have always been single, never been in and I wish to remain single for life.Simple!.
What if there's a girl who likes you?
“ What if there's a girl who likes you?”Like me? You mean an opposite gender version of me and that too with extremely short BOYCUT hairstyle?Well, as I said being a logical and rational person I know for sure that there is no such woman. Or are you asking me to imagine? Hypothetically?
You seem to be curious woman. I am just saying. I don’t mind answering your questions at all.I appreciate your interest and curiosity to know things.
I misunderstood your question. Sorry.
I will answer your question now. Sorry again.
Well if a woman likes me then unfortunately it will not end well for her because my purpose is to remain single for life. Hence her liking, her love will be one sided from her end. It will be sad, I know but that’s how it will be.If she confesses she likes me or loves me then I will refuse her politely
Hence only a woman can ever like me, I will never like any woman in my lifetime. Yes any woman will be proud to have a man like me in her life but there is no possibility of love, nothing. I won’t allow that because I will stay true to my purpose of my life.I only wish to remain single for life and lead a loveless life.
Yes, that’s the answer to your question. The right answer.Once again, sorry I completely misinterpreted your question.
Consider my other answer as an extra info to satisfy your curiosity.
how about you personally?
It certainly isn't true for me. Is it true for you?
Does it mean you can still have feelings for her even after not seeing her for long?
That's exactly what it means
How is it even possible after a period of time?
I guess it really depends on the guy