Is starting to become so heavily sex based that I’m starting to lose attraction to him. It feels like all we have is sex!! It’s starting to make me feel used and questioning our relationship. We hardly talk about real things and he never talks about our future together. Before anyone says he is a player, no he isn’t. He’s actually very introverted and “insecure”, that’s why I’m so confused. It’s been 7 months and nobody has said the L word. Am I wasting my time here?