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Generally mothers are very quick to criticise, but most of the time it's because they want their child to work harder to improve. So dont take it lightly but also remember it's not as serious as she is probably making it out to be. Also, a girl like you is nowhere near out of league😉 when you got flaps thats when guys don't go d it attractive. But you rock that body girl!
Don't like the chubby. I like better if she's working on losing some of that body fat. Then I like way, way better. I don't like the ones who just seem okay to be chubby.
What if they look chubby but have a healthy body fat %?
It is a mind thing for me. If she wants to lose some of the excess fat then we can work together. I see potential and that's beautiful to me beyond the immediate form. But I do not like somebody who is okay with themselves carrying excess body fat. Maybe that's superficial in a way (it probably is) but it's also like I don't want her to die soon.
Yeah- that’s understandable.
I am info fitness but I invite her to join me. We can do slowly, at her pace. If she is very heavy then I can put weighted vests and straps on my body to match our weights. We can become fit together. I am far from a picture-perfect body either. I am 40-years old now. I have a pic if you will forgive my age and my limitations:
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But I like having a fitness partner. We can inspire and motivate each other, eat healthy things, cook healthy things for each other. I like it this way. It is a common interest. If she is chubby that is okay but I want this common interest.
Hmm. I am level 1 so I cannot post pics so easily. Maybe easiest is to remove the spaces from this one:
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Your body looks good considering your age. And yes- I too prefer fitness when you have somebody to do it with. And your way of doing things sounds really fair and sweet.
I like chubby girls. I like big girls. I like skinny girls. I like muscular girls. I like average girls too. And that's what you are: just kinda average; not really skinny, not really chubby.
Thanks! I’m just paranoid.
It's okay, everyone thinks they look worse than they really do, with the rare exception of people that look god awful but think they're the next brooke shields or john stamos
Great way of putting it haha
Sure, but everyone should always work to be healthy (Or at least somewhat healthy). You ain't even chubby though.
Thanks- I’m healthy in every aspect apart from BMI which is over by 1. So I’m just automatically wired to think I’m fat.
Depends on the girl. Some wear the weight well... and it don't deminish their sex appeal.. the top pick... that's not fat that healthy athletic perfect.. n I the the one on the bottom is pretty incredible too
Thanks for the “perfect” hehe.
I use to. I thought they would be more thoughtful and mentally deep. Unfortunately, they all have had more severe mental issues in my experience and were just as swallow as Barbie girls.
I had never thought of that
Yea, young plus sized woman just need not rely on pity for dates. It will lead to mental stress and identity struggles. Many many men, myself included, are attracted to curvy women with an attitude. It's that whole, meeting in th middle thing that's tricky.
That does make a lot of sense really.. They say confidence is one of the most attractive qualities to have.
Yes I do, it's like everything some things you likes and some not, and by the way you are not chubby you have curves. That's normal. And please don't drink from the cup of self sabotage your self esteem. Your fine as far as I can see.
Thank you
in my opinion, you look better. I prefer slimmer girls, but I think a reason is that I am pretty small. Topping out at 5'4" and 120 lbs. I don't find thicker girls ugly, I just think it's better with girls that can't crush me if we ever do cowgirl.
Very intellectually put. However I am 5’6 sooooo hahah
I am not interested in dating you. And apparently I am above average in my pants, so it all works out in the end.
I know that haha. And oh okay then.
Plus you're 15 and I am 29 in 8 days, so way too old for you.
I’m not interested anyway. No offence.
It's good you aren't. If I dated a girl about half my age under about 50, it'd be weird. Likewise it'd be weird if you dated someone my age.
Big is beautiful & when it comes to love, love is love & there is a lot more to love as well.
That’s beautiful.
Hell yeah I do. Ever meet a big girl that can't cook. They can cook food and in bed. More cushion for the pushing
Great description.