Should women compensate everything a man does for them?

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i think yes
because women should give as much as men
but some men dont have self respect
and doesn't want to know
what a woman brings to the table

Answer 1

AlienParasite | 89 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't think a woman or a man should compensate everything another person does voluntarily. A person gives because he or she feels like giving.

HOWEVER I do think that if a man or a woman feels they are giving too much and the other person doesn't reciprocate, they should consider stop giving and even if the relationship it's worth it.

I think there should be a balance, but I don't feel it should be forced. If a person doesn't naturally give, making this person give won't satisfy me, because I would know they don't really do it naturally and because they want, but because I told so... and I want to be with a person I don't have to say "Love me!" to be loved.

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Fatherhere901

+1 y
What about after they stop giving what they believe is too much? Wouldn't that be when the other person starts believing the person is no longer contributing?
AlienParasite

+1 y
@Fatherhere901 There's this problem with subjective perspective, that one could think that is putting more effort in a relationship that the other person. But, what we believe might not always be the reality.

However, we are going to think one guy is really giving more than his girl. If the guy starts making a lower effort, that is more like the one she's doing, and then she complains about him not doing any effort... it means she doesn't really value the guy's efforts and that she think she does more than she actually does.

Honestly, I think one shouldn't worry too much about what people that undervalue you believes about you. You should rather find a partner that values you more. One that if you do more is aware of that, an try to get your level, or at least doesn't think you are not contributing when your lower your effort to the same level of the other person.

Even sometimes the problem is lack of mutual appreciation for what the other does. But even if both parts are at fault... there are only two ways to solve it nicely, trying to appreciate your partner efforts instead of beign too demanding or entitled, or trying to find a partner that matches better with you. I think beign too demanding or acting entitled, leads to no-where nice.

I'm not sure if I have solved your questions in base of my POV in a clear way, I feel like a made a bit of mess with the words and ideas. Sorry if it's confusing 😅

Answer 2

Fatherhere901

What about after they stop giving what they believe is too much? Wouldn't that be when the other person starts believing the person is no longer contributing?

Answer 3

AlienParasite

@Fatherhere901 There's this problem with subjective perspective, that one could think that is putting more effort in a relationship that the other person. But, what we believe might not always be the reality.

However, we are going to think one guy is really giving more than his girl. If the guy starts making a lower effort, that is more like the one she's doing, and then she complains about him not doing any effort... it means she doesn't really value the guy's efforts and that she think she does more than she actually does.

Honestly, I think one shouldn't worry too much about what people that undervalue you believes about you. You should rather find a partner that values you more. One that if you do more is aware of that, an try to get your level, or at least doesn't think you are not contributing when your lower your effort to the same level of the other person.

Even sometimes the problem is lack of mutual appreciation for what the other does. But even if both parts are at fault... there are only two ways to solve it nicely, trying to appreciate your partner efforts instead of beign too demanding or entitled, or trying to find a partner that matches better with you. I think beign too demanding or acting entitled, leads to no-where nice.

I'm not sure if I have solved your questions in base of my POV in a clear way, I feel like a made a bit of mess with the words and ideas. Sorry if it's confusing 😅

Answer 4

maddiepanda

Xper 1

I believe relationships should be about an equal balance between give and take, no matter the gender

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maddiepanda

+1 y
thanks for MHO

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maddiepanda

thanks for MHO

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cougarclaw87

Xper 5

It depends wheat being compensated. If its financial compensation like repaying a loan , then yes. If you want to have a relationship with someone and split everything that should be established in the beginning. But sometimes couples have different pay grades so that should be considered in choosing activities that cost money. It should be noted that this doesn't apply to gender. The are some things in relationships that are done for one another that can't be paid back with money. It could be a favor, chores that always are done, cooked meals, there's always a trade off. As long as everyone is contributing their part that's the give and take of a relationship. But those boundaries have to be established early on if anything stricter needs to be in place for fairness.

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SueShe | 677 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

How do you suggest a man compensates a woman for giving life to a new human being ad how should a woman compensate for all the people men kill?

If you can answer this question correctly, then I will agree with your question but otherwise, I will consider your question just plain as a troll/spamming question, right?

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SportLover

+1 y
do you have a brain
im speaking about other things
like respect
love
and others

Answer 8

SportLover

do you have a brain
im speaking about other things
like respect
love
and others

Answer 9

franziska

Xper 5

a friendship / partnership is mutual. If a man gives the woman something, the reverse is also true. If it is not so, it interferes with the relationship and there is controversy.
If the gifts are unbalanced, the woman should give back what she got too much, I would do so.

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boggboss | 6.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Why would u be with a women that don't provide anything to the relationship

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SportLover

+1 y
i won't
boggboss

+1 y
But that's my point it's would be stupid to enter such a relationship

Answer 11

SportLover

i won't

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boggboss

But that's my point it's would be stupid to enter such a relationship

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COMMODOREII | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I don't think anyone should tell each other what they make. And just pay your part to the household

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luvstoned4him | 1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

yea, I always believe , its 50/50 or nothing

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anmari2001 | 493 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

like returning a credit from the bank, yeah great

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SportLover

+1 y
answer the question or fuck off
anmari2001

+1 y
haha if you can't recognize sarcasm fuck yourself

Answer 16

SportLover

answer the question or fuck off

Answer 17

anmari2001

haha if you can't recognize sarcasm fuck yourself

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Unit1 | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

It's not a competition.

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SportLover

+1 y
what?

Answer 19

SportLover

what?

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Iron_Man | 10.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Oh yeah big time i broke my ass for her

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CupcakeKiller | 55 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

I'll make sure to get my boyfriend a tip jar.

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SportLover

+1 y
answer the quwstion or fuck off
CupcakeKiller

+1 y
I had already fucked off and you brought me back here.
SportLover

+1 y
you are really pathetic
one person has asked a question
and you answer like an idiot
grow up
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CupcakeKiller

+1 y
You sound like a cool guy.

Answer 22

SportLover

answer the quwstion or fuck off

Answer 23

CupcakeKiller

I had already fucked off and you brought me back here.

Answer 24

SportLover

you are really pathetic
one person has asked a question
and you answer like an idiot
grow up

Answer 25

CupcakeKiller

You sound like a cool guy.

Answer 26

Hispanic-Cool-Guy | 1.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Clarify what exactly you mean?

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