If a guy out of your league shows you attention out of nowhere is he a player?

Anonymous
He’s very cute etc but I’m not a gullible girl just because he gives me attention and because he’s handsome.
im very average looking and I’m not just saying that.

I've been an absolute bitch to him and I hate that he even shows me attention

im protecting myself because
1. not sure if it’s genuine
2. strikes me as a player because he’s always on his phone, he’s not shy around females

3. I think he knows that I am a good girl and he’s trying to play the field good by making me feel like he actually cares or he actually cares about my interest etc.
Updates:
1 mo
No he’s never asked for my number or told me anything verbally but actions speak louder than words

He’s done nothing sexual but he shows care and concern
If a guy out of your league shows you attention out of nowhere is he a player?
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