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They’re never too good to be true
Believe me I observe It’s never enough
I can tell you’ve never been in a relationship
That’s what I was saying That’s why I have had to weaponize sex
I just got sex out of the way and see if they stuck around after. Waited 4 months with my ex and that turned into 5 years of domestic violence. Slept with my now fiance on the first date. and we've been solid for 3 1/2 years. it's all kinds of factors. No one is the same
No I won’t be doing that That’s how they win If they turn out to be a complete twat. they still got your body
In some cases sure. But i guess in my case I won
But that also goes for crazy females too. One of my friends is the actual nice guy and girls are bitches to him
I’m not trying the luck thing that never works
Hahaha I have zero luck. I'm straight cursed. But it's not about luck. Its just about every individual person
It is about luck and you got some. Congrats I can’t try anymore and I no longer even like sex It’s an awful experience for me
If you knew my daily life I really don't have luck. If you want to say I got lucky with mine. Well only took 27 years. and i promise you he is my only luck. i wasn't interested in sex after the abuse with the ex for 5 years. Took time when i finally left. fucked up stories for a lifetime with just that one. And sad thing is i knew him for 10 years total. plane friends for years before i learned he was a psycho in a relationship. So in your 20s. that's just a common belief. truth is you never ever know. Btk killers wife I'm sure was shocked after decades of being together. guy tortured women to death. I do wish you the best in your healing process
Ok well I’m not waiting 27 years. I want to start a family.
I amSickened and sad because I wanted to start a family and now I can’t Cause I’m never gonna be good for any guy that’s decent so in a year I’m going to be adopting a child on my own
yeah easy for you to say. Without the anti trust I’m going to be hurt very very very badly
I have no reason to think a different way
Why would it be easy for me to say? My ex beat me constantly. Before that it was 15 years of a pedo and violent step dad and my mother is a damn sociopath. No it was not easy
Ok well Your therapists helped you. Therapy hasn’t and won’t ever help me
I haven't been in therapy since i was 13. Life helps not therapists
Well your life worked for you and you found coping stuff that worked Nothing works for me
There’s nothing for me to work out by myself. I don’t even hang with people outside my two friends
nothing is going to change I’m 23 and I turn 24 this year I’ve been in the same place in life since 18 years old
What is there even to change I changed stuff I moved states. I broke up with nasty dudes. I don’t date anymore. I have only two friends who I hardly ever see. I am not even a part of society now
I see a therapist for the self esteem issues and the “assumptions” about people. If I didn’t assume stuff about people I would get brow beaten
I have gone to meetup groups I have moved states I have switched friend groups I have gone to therapy for many years I have tried to tweak my interactions with people slightly I have tried to have more patience I have been getting along better with my mom I’m OUT OF IDEAS.
Of course I wouldn’t But I’d tell them they may not because of how guys act
But you can't let them think every guy is the same and instill those unhealthy comparisons and trust issues That's like someone judging you because their dating experiences have been bad and maybe that's why you keep getting assholes. Those assholes were once hurt too so fuck it right. I tell my daughter screw that guy. Better ones out there and if you just match up to your same book and page. then be Betty White. damn awesome single.. 3+ billion men are not the same. They are not the borg. This completely goes both ways. Message me.
Congratulations on your engagement Mandy! May you like long & happily with your selected man.
@Qiyndall yeah I did that. It doesn’t work. Now I must take a more protective view
I hope your daughter isn’t seriously hurt in taking that risk Mandy
My child will not ruin her life taking a risk that is not necessary.
@Qiyndall no guys that I meet like kids or animals And I have no dudes in the friend zone either
@Qiyndall it isn’t about what I decide. It’s about how soon the guy turns from a loving caring man to a yelling abusive man
@Qiyndall ya just don’t get it do you
@Qiyndall actually you don’t know much about me and it shows
@Qiyndall I have made no bad decisions with guys Good lord you should meet my exes. Also, myChildren will be able to adopt kids of their own or have a sperm donor if they so chose later down the line. I would teach them to be cautious but not hate guys Definitely to be cautious though. But wow the amount of assumptions HOLY SCHNIKES
Guys will never wait
They have to if you don't agree to it.
No they don’t they can then state over and over why you should have sex with them and that it’s your duty and no matter what you say they don’t fuckin stop They’ll even get right up in your face
If someone behaves that way toward you, that's a sign that they're the wrong person. I would see it as someone you shouldn't even be dating, much less giving sex to.
yep got it nobody discussed this with me earlier The idiots
No no they don’t
So how does that happen? What type of true colors are you talking about?
Yeah good luck with that 😂😂😂😂
That’s how I live my life id recommend it to others
You’re a guy You don’t have a clue what girls need to deal with
I have a slight clue trust me I’ve had to deal with sisters issue X girlfriend issue But you’re right I don’t know what women have to deal with that you don’t know what man have to deal with
They don’t let it happen ever. That’s never how it works They ask and ask and ask
well i never asked and never will, ima let it happen normally, but i can only speak for myself, i still believe you are with the wrong people, its why they keep asking, you have to look for that has the intentions to start a relationship, not get in your pants, if they are constantly asking then that should be a giveaway that sex is their intention
Another person missing the point
Another person thinking I missed the point but actually doesn’t understand what I said...
I can’t withhold sex. They press up millimeters away from me and make it hard to go somewhere N shit
they beg like a dog and do not stop
They say it’s my duty n shit sooooooo I am single 😂 f I’m tired of it
You asked for advice, follow it if it’s good. There’s no other way to know than the above prescriptions I’ve given you
Yeah said the person who has never been with a covert narcissist
Covert narcissist or not... my advice is the only thing anyone can do
It is actually You’ve never been in a relationship I see
More relationships than you have hot dinners, that's beside the point. It's psychology, why are you giving sex to someone who are unsure about? Why are you rewarding behaviour you would later describe as a jackass?
Exactly You’re a player and one of the type of people I am referring to most likely
Because when I first meet them and am getting to know them they’re nice
No I'm not a player, never cheated on a girlfriend and ended on good terms with every one of them. Still, friends and many want me back. How about contemplating what I actually said for a second.
Uh huh sure. you’ve been in more relationships than I had hot dinners But ok
Chuckle chuckle, you're just here to vent. Vent away.
I don’t think you understand how covert narcissism works
Or how people can be incredibly nice when they first meet me and when I first get to know em for a while Then they become tyrants months in
Yeah they never let me They say they’re gonna move on if I don’t within like the first three mos
Then that's how you know lol. Someone who cares about you for you will be okay with waiting a little while longer.
I was told no individual would be ok to wait 6 months
I can tell you’re only 19. HAHAHAHAHAHA
Haha, alright, I may be younger, but I'm also in an over 1½-year long relationship, and I can honestly say I don't regret having waited several months to go all the way. What I'm trying to say is that if a guy isn't willing to wait until you're ready for the level of intimacy he's looking for, he's probably not in it for who you are as a person. If you find someone who's willing to have that patience, he's more likely to be worth it in the long run.
Nobody will wait I already know this
R. I. P.
They don’t talk to their mom at all They don’t want to
That’s normal Dudes normally don’t talk to their moms much
I do But I would never have a family of my own or anything if I stuck to that wirh guys No dudes are willing to wait
Some guys are willing to waitAre you saying if you wait for sex no one would want to settle down with you?
Yes Nobody would want to
My husband waited until we got married so yes men are willing to wait. Even if their just waiting 3-6 months if he really love you and want you he'll wait
That’s your luck You got lucky
Yeah I guess the issue is no guys would ever want to even give me a chance to love me
Hannah, I wait for my girl! I was married a long time. My chosen girl is a virgin. You'd better be damn certain I will wait till she is ready! Why risk my relationship with her over some physical needs? If I wait till she is ready, it will be more sweet.I want her to enjoy herself, desire me more & to never regret having sex with me.If you suck/screw any old fellow who tells you he wants you to do this, you are not a respected & loved woman, but a mere sex object used by multiple men as a cum dumpster.Have some respect for yourself or the "boys" never will!!!