You defined it the best, I totally agree. You’re completely right
Got a link to that article? Romans weren't perfect, but they had their shit together lol
@SomeGuyCalledTom I'm glad you're interested, it's a really interesting read. www.newyorker.com/.../when-men-wanted-to-be-virile
Nice, thanks! I even like the word "verile". Too bad boys today are raised to believe these traits = "toxic masculinity"
I was looking for this post for ever to follow up. I also wanted to say there's a place for sensitive men specifically if you just can't let it go. Go find and become one of the sensitive type women love. Like wei wuxan or zen from snow white with red hair or a guy from a fantasy... this is your one HUGE advantage but...You stand a huge chance of getting abused so you still have to try and follow the basics to being a man. Careful which woman you show your feelings to... some are snakes man.. and they act nice. It's like this site where you know humans at fucked but everyone acts nice...There's a balance for sensitive men... but listen is hard and it's worth avoidingIf you can't...Then yeah just... become amazing... become like Alexander the great or enkiduI'm 100% sure you're going to ignore my words but there you go...
It might not be what you want to hear but hey
I never heard that poem before I like thanks for sharing
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I think some people go too far to one extreme or the other. Right now, I think that many people go too far to the extreme where they encourage men to be overly sensitive and overly emotional. I think that's what you're doing here.
If saying "knowing when to be emotionally weak and when to be emotionally strong" is too sensitive for you then perhaps you're too far gone on the opposite sideKnowing when to give in to emotions is the strongest thing any man can do, when to let yourself feel sad, when to cryWe are all emotion driven creatures and to reject that to appear 'manly' is to reject a part of our very humanityIt is also a contributing factor to male suicide, were raise told to man up, stuck it in bare the wight of the world on our shoulders and shut up about it but the second we have something we can't burry, something that makes us weak, males just on average aren't given the mental tools or soical support to experience such emotions leading to many MANY men giving up unable to deal with it to keep it up of course there are many other factors involved in the high rate of male suicide but the soical pressure of "be a man" is definitely one of those factors
I don't think any of that is true. In the 70s the difference in suicide rates between men and women was 2:1. Today it's 4:1. Has our culture become more and more traditional? Or has it become more and more liberal?
Yeah also make him drill with it like cement blocks roads so much job opportunities I mean😂😂😂
@startingfitness impressive puberty served you well
are you hot lol?
about 36 degrees Celsius hot
@startingfitness do you like the choker i'm wearing in my pic? too tight?
it does look a bit too tight
@startingfitness it kinda restricts my breathing a little when i talk and swallow but it feels sexy wearing it around guys on a night out
you women are really weird sometimes
by the way wassup with the "dick and balls" comments... it's not that simple
What makes a man is his morals and values
I totally agree. Guys should be able to be more emotional.