Help should I approach him (please read)?

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I have a crush on this guy who used to go to my school. I also have a fake account on instagram and with no further intentions I’ve texted him there. Just to see if he would even respond..

He immediately got it and asked me for the reasons I have a fake one. We got into a deep psychological discussion and he tried to help me with my issues. I also admited that I know him from school and that I’ve always found him handsome. He meant I should created a real one and write him.

I had a lot of hopes that he would ask me out or something, but it didn’t happend. However he was very kind and respectful towards me. One year later I wrote him again with another fake account and he got it again. Again we got into deep psychological topics. I didn’t admited that I’m the same person again.

Than I had troubles with an guy and I always turned to him and asked for male advice. I never had to worry about getting judged. Since he didn’t knew who I was and therefore completely opened up to him.

One time we got off topic and started asking about eachother. He said he wanna know how I look and that he would like to get a picture of me since he believes that I’m cute.

I just responded with hahaha. He than didn’t texted for 5 minutes. I decieded to take the initivative and asked him about more personal questions. Than we texted for a while. The next day I asked him if he would be intrested in a metting. He said he would first wanna know who I am. Since then nothing came from both of us.

I don’t know if I should try approaching him?
What does he want? Why did he called me cute? Should I send him a foto, but I don’t wanna embarrass myself with veing the same person again.

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virtue2332 | 80 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Look life doesn't have to be as difficult as you are making it. He is either going to be into you or he is not. The only way your going to find out is to quit with the games and be honest with him and yourself. What do you think is going to happen if you continue going the route you are? The same thing you wondering what might be. I've heard that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results. He is building in his head the idea of you. How you look based on your voice and personality. He has his idea of what you look like and the longer you keep it up the more ingrained this idea of you will be in his head and when you meet its going to throw him off because something will feel off.. Just find out so you can enjoy being together or move on to the next one.

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Alright so true thank you very much! I just don’t know why he called me cute? Does he really mean it or was it a trick to get a picture of me? And I’m the same person as before won’t he think i’m crazy?
virtue2332

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Personality or actions can be cute. He probably won't think you are crazy if your honest and genuine about your feelings. Better to discuss that stuff in person though. Just send a picture or tell him you hate pictures and rather meet up if thats the case. If you like the guy let him know if he is a jerk about it he is not the one. There is someone out there for you that has everything you need and are looking for but you will never find him if you don't change your approach. You should never be angry or fear being rejected you should be happy because it means you are one person closer to your perfect match. You might even have some fun on the journey to meeting this person. Maybe its him. Find out.
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Thank you so much for everything!
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virtue2332

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Anytime. Its something that I learned. We are similar and I use to to do a lot of the things you are doing. I eventually changed my ways and am going on 20 years with my wife. I'm 43 and people say I look young for my age I owe it to not overcomplicating situations and moisturizer😉

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Asker

Alright so true thank you very much! I just don’t know why he called me cute? Does he really mean it or was it a trick to get a picture of me? And I’m the same person as before won’t he think i’m crazy?

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virtue2332

Personality or actions can be cute. He probably won't think you are crazy if your honest and genuine about your feelings. Better to discuss that stuff in person though. Just send a picture or tell him you hate pictures and rather meet up if thats the case. If you like the guy let him know if he is a jerk about it he is not the one. There is someone out there for you that has everything you need and are looking for but you will never find him if you don't change your approach. You should never be angry or fear being rejected you should be happy because it means you are one person closer to your perfect match. You might even have some fun on the journey to meeting this person. Maybe its him. Find out.

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Thank you so much for everything!

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virtue2332

Anytime. Its something that I learned. We are similar and I use to to do a lot of the things you are doing. I eventually changed my ways and am going on 20 years with my wife. I'm 43 and people say I look young for my age I owe it to not overcomplicating situations and moisturizer😉

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Avicenna | 6.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Approach him, but confidently, knowing what you want.

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But im the same person as before he will think im crazy no? But why does he call me cute?
Avicenna

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You have a clean slate here if you approach and know what you want.

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Asker

But im the same person as before he will think im crazy no? But why does he call me cute?

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Avicenna

You have a clean slate here if you approach and know what you want.

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