Yeah, he's trying to comfort me at the same time tho which is incredibly weird.
He's not comforting you he's just making sure that you don't hate him after finding out the truth. He might need you in the future when he'll be lonely again.
Yeah I think thats what is too
Anyway, I don't think he used you because he was lonely. I understand if you feel that way, but I think that line of thought will only make you feel bad about yourself :( The only way to know that for sure is if he said it to you.
You deserve a better explanation from him.
No he's a male, he said he feels confused about me? I think, since weve had probelms in the past but literally overcame it for months. Its just an excuse i think. Also, he's just going to Europe to visit family for just 3 weeks but I know one of his exs lives in Europe. Maybe thats one reason why above more reasons. I guess he dosent want a relationship, basically means he's just not that i to me. Its just hard to accept
Ah yeah, the ex being in Europe sounds like a likely part of it. I'm so sorry love. It will take time to accept. He sounds like a confused douche really, and I believe you can do way better in the future. Just let yourself feel what you're feeling and express your emotions in healthy ways. And try not to extrapolate into negative thinking, because that will only hurt you <3
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I did ask him, first he was not texting me for 3 days so i asked him what was up and he said that he's distanced himself because he feels confused and he's busy, also he’s leaving to Europe for a month. Also that our relationship is inevitable.
“I just feel confused and I’m busy, I’ll be leaving to Europe for a month too” anyways we were fine and happy before his roomate came back
So what, you think his roommate broke the two of you up?
No but he acts different when his roomate is around. When his room mate came back he basically slowly distanced himself since he wasn’t alone anymore maybe?
I think you are looking for something that isn't there. His reasons for breaking up are very weak.