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Thank you sir
If a female doesn't think the same way they are also indeed untrustworthy and therefore nothing
What do you mean?
Ima put it simple actions speak louder than words
Bitter little fella
Sorry you think so but I could say while in a relationship "had sex with your sister and got her pregnant" but in reality had done none of that so yeah any human with a brain and common sense would say actions speak louder for words lemme give you another example a drug addict has told every they know that "I'm clean I haven't done drugs" but is currently high on meth do you get my point before you try to tell me I'm bitter grow a actual brain and get rid of a few of your extra chromosomes and understand logic
Lmaooo that's what I thought
@waterniggbone I don't read sensitive guy rants take a Mydol chill out 😺meow lol
Ok obviously you're missing some love and affection in your life so here's a kiss😘
That's what I meant was the importance of his word
Money, looks, confidence.
@Unit1 Ah yes, padawan. :)What I don't get is these women that will hang around with a guy they don't trust, don't really like, are not into, and thinks he's an asshole or a liar. I mean, what the hell. NEXT him! And find a better one. Then you hear the 'But I love him...' Dear lord.
Like DMX said: Talk is cheap, MoFo!Yeah, I can't sympathize with their own undoings. They may never learn. They don't want to do better, so why bother. If they can't respect themselves, then why should we?
@Unit1 - Cuz so many are so desperate. They've never done the work to develop their value, their worth and worthiness. Most think that if they simply show up with their vagina they're, well, golden. ;)
And then there's the opposite end of that same spectrum. Dare we reject those, we'll be called incels and losers, that nobody else wants. Straight into ad hominem shaming tactics when they don't get what they expected (looks like their Golden vagina did not suffice to put up with them). 😂😂😂That's right! My money is mine.
@Unit1 My favorite..."Is the fucking you're getting worth the fucking you're getting?" :)
That's a good wordplay. This sounds like it came from Rollo Tomassi. 😀
@Unit1 - Not sure. Some of my quips come from decades of banter and discussion. My late father had a few doozies as well. LOLHe used to say, "Marriage is a fine institution... as long as you don't mind living in an institution."They used to call mental wards, or 'funny farms', an 'institution'. It's where they put crazy people. LOLMy mother was fukkin nutz.
Tell me one thing. What makes a marriage successful for both the man and the woman and how to not land into a slavery institution?
@Unit1 As Dr. Laura says, "Choose wisely, treat kindly."First you have to be a worthy partner. For if you do the work and become a PRICE TO BEHOLD, then you can be choosy and pick a worthy partner that also brings high value. And if you're worth respecting and haveing awe for, and you choose a woman that will honor you, then you'll have a woman worth doing whatever it takes for. Unfortunately, people go into relationship and marriages with unreasonable expectations, and a poor understanding of what a working partnership looks like. There's not much out there to teach us, other than the bible, and no one really wants to read that anymore. So whatever they've learned came from their parent's failed relationship, or their friends. --> cont
part II...Neither is willing to forego their own interestes for the other, they put themselves first, with demands and expectations, realistic or not. So then when they become disillusioned or depressed, or unhappy with the way their relationship is going, instead of working on themselves, they blame the other. You even hear the word tracks, "he/ made me..." this or that. "I'm just not happy." "He/she is too..." this or that. They blame, instead of doing the work to MAKE it work. Love and marriage is about GIVING. You have to be willing to put your spouse first, but they have to be worthy in the first place. So we have a lot of failed marriages, and you hear the "I love them but I'm not IN love with them anymore" shtick. Or they shut down sexually (her) or he jerkes off to porn, or either finds someone else to confinde in, or even to have sex with. They call it an affair. Or they decide to just split, and divorce. 75% of divorces are initiated by women. They are ready to cut and run if they feel the relationship isn't giving them what they want - you'll here the "I'm just not hhhaaapppyyy". Guys will tend to stay and persevere, just hoping things will get better. And most of them are too weak, so there's no assertion of authority, no decisiveness, and they tend to get fat and lazy and don't pay their wife proper attention. So she shuts down and bails. It is CRITICAL that you choose a worthy woman to be your wife!
* ... PRIZE TO BEHOLD...Not 'price'. Sorry.
The burden of performance and success of the marriage is carried by the REAL MAN. Like it or not!It's your fault if it doesn't work, and it's to your credit if it does. Sure, she plays an important role, but the man is the leader. If he can't or won't, she'll take over, but they absolutely loathe that, and it makes for a really ugly relationship dynamic. You see this from time to time, if you travel, you'll stop for gas, and while you're filling up your car a mini-van full of kids rolls in, the couple get out, she's usually fat and ugly, and she's barking orders at him. DO THIS DO THAT, ARE A FUCKING IDIOT? YOU'RE WORSE THAN THE KIDS. And she actually just loathes this guy, but he's her plowhorse so she keeps him around. Particularly if he is any kind of breadwinner or provider. And there isn't any sex after the kids were born, for gods's sakes who would want to do her in the first place. So there's this stupid schmuck of a guy, the patriarch of a failed family, with a wife that hates him. What a life!!
Interesting perspective.This sounds like you should post an article about it and let the rest of the blues (and pinks) know.What I find interesting is this perspective "it's your fault if you fail and it's your fault if the wife YOU have chosen fails you". It's like we are responsible and accountable for everything going on and to a certain point I can see why.This also reminds me of one of George Carlin's speech (when he mentioned the fat people problem in America and brought an example of seeing a fat and ugly man and a fat and ugly woman anywhere) and he told the audience "Do they fuck?".Anyhow. Is finding a qualified romantic partner similar to passing a job interview for a high paying job position? It sounds very much like it.
@Unit1 - Yes, absolutely. And you better bring your A-game. Yes, I should post more 'takes, but the dialog in the threads are what spur the thought processes. At my point in life there's just a mega-shit-ton of experiences and stuff stored up in there, and it takes a spurring or impetus to get them to come out.I'm simply not here for any kind of notoriety or recognition. IDGAF. LOLIt comes from a commitment to 'outcome independence'. I have zero fear or qualms about anything. My life is nearly over, and it's been just phenomenal. :)
So this is why you post Rollo's link left and right. Can't blame ya.
@Unit1 -Rollo Tomassi has hit on what I know to be the truth I have found over my great life travels and interactions. He spells out the reasons behind why women act and do what they do. It makes absolutely perfect sense. It was like reading a memoire on my self. And it arms a guy with sufficient knowledge so that they have more acceptance of their behaviors. Understanding breeds acceptance. The problem is most guys are unreceptive to the truth, and all they've had to rely on their whole life is what their mother or dad told or showed them, or what their friends thought or said. All of which is not only unreliable, but in most cases simply false. WAY too many outright lies. Generally it takes some bimbo a guy has been madly in love with to rip his heart out and stomp on it, or tear his head off and shit down his neck hole. LOL Until they've been broken, they simply cannot or will not believe the truth. My heart has been broken so many times it's like a shattered piece of glass. Am I unhappy? Hell no - I have the love of a very good and beautiful woman. And three grown adult children - all older than you, all very well adjusted and successful individuals. I chose HER. She was an incredible foe for a very long time, until I was able to man-up and take control. All of a sudden she calmed, and turned, become more respectful, and in awe. And that's what it takes or you just never find peace with a woman - she'll always shit-test the hell out of you.
For example, recently Johnny Depp and Amber Heard dissolution hearing...She SHIT THEIR MARRIAGE BED. Why? Cuz she fukkin HATES him. And everything connected between the two. Why would a woman shit on her bed on purpose?I once heard of a ONS where the girl must have not liked what he did the night before, cuz when he woke up she had left a steaming log on his chest. Another one super-glued his penis to his thigh. Cool huh? LOL
Well, well. If that ain't how it is. That sounds like men are the players and women are the NPCs or basically the interacting environment around the protagonist, the playable hero - the man. Not, that i expected it to be much different but these are the real world rules. It's either adapting to it or nothing.Is there a defined standard where you think a man is successful by age if he meets certain criteria or milestones? You mentioned huge success but what does huge success exactly encompass and by what age? (If it's not money, looks and confidence.)
@Unit1 It IS money looks and confidence. So let's take it by age... single guys in the dating pool...First of all a guy's brain doesn't even fully form 'till about 25. So no life-changing decisions should really be independently made 'till then. Go to school, get good grades, get a degree in something that pays bank. That will set you up for the rest of your life. So while going to school, even as young as high school, a smart guy becomes socially skilled so he can talk to girls comfortable. He relates well, they like him, he's funny and social, entertaining. Isn't that what all girls want? To be entertained, right? And he works out, pumps iron, he's a great looking guy, even if he isn't the 'cutest'. This is a huge success. He has best pick of all the girls in the school. Sure, some won't care for him, but so what? He has the rest to choose from. He gets all the pussy he can stand. Now let's move to mid to late 20's. If he's done the work he got a great degree and now has been recruited by some up and coming firm, great salary, all the benies, and he's bought himself a nice home. If he isn't already hitched, he will literally have women begging to be his wife. Age 30 to 40. Here you find either the guys that ignored girls, or were so goddam plain they all ignored him, or he's a player and never bothered to get hitched, or he's now divorced with a kid or two. All the same points apply here. He's either in high demand or he's not. Late forties, into fifties. Nothing new here. They're either confirmed bachelors, or widowers, or divorcees. If he's got a nice car and a nice home, the women are begging to join him. Most of the women by this age are looking for a provider. Someone that can support them in their desired lifestyle for the rest of their lives. I could go into a lot more detail, but this is the 'thousand-foot' level.
Alright, i see. However a nice house by 30 is a really sky high expectation. That is if the parents aren't financially successful.
@Unit1 you both are funny 🤣 @Browneye57
This will come in very handy getting some pinks 😀 looking forward to win some of them pinks over
@Unit1 - I bought my first house at 19. At 22 it was a tri-level on an acre so my first wife could bring her horses. But she wouldn't move there 'till we married, so I settled. That lasted ten years - then she was dumped for being a worthless wife. During that ten years we completed the 6000 sq foot mansion on a 5 acre estate. She was more unhappy about losing the house than her husband. She never really gave two shits about me - it was always about what SHE could get out of it.
At 19 I collected together some cash to fund my relocation into the city. Wow.Yeah, she sounds toxic. And she was upset about losing the house more than a husband? Oh man. Did you see any warning signs during those 10 years?At 22 I have graduated College and was working saved up for my first semester tuition for my bachlors degree. Fast forward today I have a bachelors degree now (graduated this July) and am applying for a higher paying job. Looked into MBA opportunities also. Now I have to finance that too out of my own pocket. Their pricing vary from 5000-7000 euros per semester. That is 7+ times more expensive than one semester for my bachelors degree.
@Unit1 - Keep up the hard work - it's worth it, for YOU.Yes, first wife was a loser. I kept chasing other woman looking for something better. Yes, it was wrong, should have dumped her and started over. But you know... young and dumb and full of cum. LOLThe two daughters we have resent the shit out of me dumping their mother, now over thirty years ago. Even as adults, it's hard for them to grasp that the rejection was not toward them, that I still love them. But kids can't help but feel I would have stayed if I really loved them, and that's just not realistic or reality. But they're both happy and healthy, and highly successful adults. I had a third child with the new wife - she was much younger and much prettier. Our son is the brilliant one - got himself into college, got a masters in four years, and recruited by a tech-giant in silly-cone valley making bank. Just bought a million-dollar house, and his new wife hates him. LOL Another self-ascribed victim. She's just sure she's gotten the short end of whatever stick in life. I don't know if they'll make it or not. They've been together six years, and she's decided he's too good for her and she doesn't like sex. She doesn't like his mom and dad either - I'm too controlling. LOL
There is a problem however. Suppose you are your 25 years old today and we'd go out to get some beautiful women. I get the feeling, that most of them will choose the 25 year old you over the 25 year old me simply for what you have and what I have at that time.Woah. He is probably undergoing that episode in life as you did and described - young, dumb and full of cum. At this time. Not sure if you or him can be blamed for overlooking all the warning signs until that moment. I may find myself in that at some point (which I find to be very unlikely to be honest) but we'll see.A divorce rape can threaten his million dollar house. Dang! This keeps happening over and over again.What else keeps happening over and over again? Ah yes - women love money. But these 3 words in that order cause undesired effects in their ears and minds. Never mind logic and truth. It's all about how we make women feel (they love hearing nice words). Can this be considered a "control tactic" we have (much like how women can make use of their Vag or cleavage as a "control tactic" towards us)?
@Unit1 - Oh, we could see this one coming a mile away. Single mother, father left when she was a child, never paid support, been told all her life men are the scum of the earth. WTF did one expect? He'll have to figure it out. He makes so goddam much money it really doesn't matter, it will work out one way or the other. Last year they made double what we did, and we had the best year in our history. And yes, it is ALWAYS about the FEELZ. Watch for the classic word tracks, "I just felt..." you made me feel...', 'how do you feel about such and such', you hurt my feelings. And don't bother ever arguing with a woman, because a man's brain runs on facts and logic, hers on feelings and emotion, and she will always resort to her feelings, regardless of any facts or logic. Mark Gungor does a pretty good standup on this the differences between the gender's brains and thought processes:https://youtu.be/814eR5K7KD8