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He hurt my feelings by what he said. Plus I don’t even know if I lead him on. I texted him after midnight saying I was thinking about you.
You just said that you think you hurt his feelings. You can apologize And still tell him your feelings are hurt too. It doesn't need to be one way. Just don't fight and get defensive. It's better to discuss whatever is bothering him and get to a decision together.
The problem is he likes me and he feels I lead him on and give him false hope. His words come from being hurt. We haven’t talked in months, let’s see who will reach out.
Ohh I see. If you haven't talked in months, don't reach out. That at least will let him know you truly don't wanna lead him on.
Was I leading him on if I texting him after midnight saying I’m thinking about you?
If you think you're leading him on, just tell him you like him and ask him if it's mutual, then it's all taken care of
I don’t like him
Yeah better don't say you're thinking about him, gives the wrong impression
Already said it and I think the damage is done
Well you can also... say that you're not looking to date and just see him as a friend
Will we have to hang out?
if you don't want to do that, just cut off all contact
It makes no sense to stay in contact if I don’t want to?
I meant to say it doesn’t make sense to stay in contact if I don’t want to hang out?
Why would you hang out with someone you don't like
I don’t like him romantically but I do as a person
What's the worth of a 'friend' if you can't picture yourself hanging out with him
I know I’m sounding redundant but would you hang out with a friend if you knew he liked you?
Then hanging out should be an option. Just make it clear that you see him as a friend and nothing more
Even so there is a chance regardless he might get the wrong idea. By me not hanging out is that Sending a bad message to him?
Friendzone him, clearly. Then all is ok