I think when you know someone is available to you, sometimes you start second-guessing yourself about your own intentions, and if you really want her. Sometimes the reason loses, and you take the wrong decision by making a rejection
Ugh like is there a way to prevent it or does it just happen naturally
I’ve had guys come back in my life and try to treat me better
But when I give them a chance they go right back being cold and leaving
Maybe they weren't really after you, after all? It's weird that they come back into your life and then go cold again. I don't think there is a way to prevent it: It's more to do with them. I think they're the ones that have to realize: "Ouch, I missed my chance"
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Well I would assume someone would be straight forward and not lead u on
Plus there’s plenty of women who would have sex without strings attached so why would they take me out and treat me and call me a lot
Just doesn’t make sense
Did you have sex?
Sometimes yes but sometimes i would wait it out and they were pretty consistent showing effort so I don't know
Sometimes it's just a single thing, often beyond your control. Maybe you were the side chick, maybe you were the rebound and he got over her, or maybe he just realized he couldn't see it working out. That's why it's best to wait for the ring to put out.
That makes no sense
Why not? If I go after a guy and he doesn't give me good signs, Imma go look for another. Makes total sense to me
Then why act or pursue me the way they do
They want to use you for sex or to stroke their ego
The how tell if that’s there intentions?
Time. That’s why you don’t do physical things until they have won some trust and their actions have matched their words over a few weeks. Guys who want to use you usually cut bait after 90 days of no sex, so don’t have sex for 90 days and see if he is still with you for other reasons.
Very good advice thank you but also haha 90 days without sex is hard for me so can we cut that down a little 😂
I never said you can’t have oral or make out. Just said don’t have intercourse. You can go 90 days without intercourse for a guy you love.
Then how do u keep the challenge going
that's the hard part