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But why does he change when I need him
But* Maybe because you weren't there when he needed you
Why would he need me?
When someone likes you it means they want your attention, maybe you didn't give him that attention and he moved on
In a few weeks? I must have meant nothing to him
What do you mean by bad? he thinks the girl is not that great?
But the girl? What if the girl cared about the crushI guess it means nothing.
Be careful with your words. A crush means the two people never really dated, more so he liked the idea of the girl. For your question if the girl cared about him then she should have taken a more active role in dating him and showing him how much she cared.
She tried. But she was scared, the guy was very erratic by nature.
Why be scared?
Because she didn't know if he was capable of taking care of her
There is no way of knowing after 2 weeks if a guy can take care of you. That takes a year to figure out.
I thought he dind't care about me.
Why? Don't guys have hearts
Yes we do. A crush doesn't equal a relationship, people can change their minds.
I'd like to talk. I am very annoyed.
Lets talk here
Okay. So I noticed there was this guy who lived in the same city that I did. I even saw him around once or twice. However he purposely changed his location to a nearby city on all his social media. Do you think it's for my benefit? As in he's trying to send out a message not to contact him? Who the hell wants to contact that guy I actually really hate him in real life.
That guy might have been scammed in the past/hacked and doesn't want to risk losing his personal info again. I've seen some people lose their life savings to scammers. All it takes is a bit of info
But it's not his address just city. It's weird why would he not indicate the city where he's living in
That is strange, the only way to know for sure is to ask him
No he knows it was mutual
I just couldn't really say. Why don't you ask him?
I thought it's the other way around-they realized I'm not that great in their eyes
Most guys don’t stop liking someone and just quit because they stopped thinking the girl was good enough it’s actually the opposite they either think they don’t have a chance with her or believe their not good enough for her and don’t make a move
I guess I'm not that great it means
Not necessarily. Just not to him. Not everyone is compatible; you know that
It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him.
Its not a question of "good". That's a subjective term.Mismatched is accurate
I think... I felt the guy thought I was inadequate in some way
Your good, he's the one that's not good, he just used you. Don't let that put you down, the right guy will find you.
Nothing ever happened.
Well then he wanted something to else to happen but it would've been short lived the good thing nothing happened.
Can I state something? I am going through something right now. I think he realizes it, and I've been withdrawn since. Initially he was trying to get a reaction from me. Then he changed, and now he's back to normal. It makes me feel like he's a bad person he leaves people when they need him.
To the girl it translates into... you're not good enough
It could be that.
Yup that's what it is but if you feel its to soon trust your gut, cause he should wait for you till your ready, not change all of a sudden to how he was.
I have to say I don’t really think so because when a guy texts you and ask you about your days too much you girls sometimes feel like you are the only one in the world who needs to be begged for your times and call him a NEEDY guy instead of replying him back so he sometimes won’t be there for you in order to be called a needy guy or a nice guy...
@samuel665 I like your answer