Point of marriage to obey God's law and legally have sex. Or tradition. Besides that the relationship involves support and the 2 pursuit their goals, or careers or whatever they want. According to divorce statistics which include majority couples with children... it's sometimes feelings of unequal load being carried with responsibility andlack of energy for each other.
The problem is women dont accept mother role anymore They don't want to stay home. They want to have everything at once. And they are ungrateful. So it will never work. If they were grateful and embraced their role marriages would work
In modern times many women have jobs... especially if the guys is low income.my fiance sleeps over at work and is home maybe 2 sometimes 3 times at most each week and it can be unpredictable... I'll do everything to avoid pregnancy, ain't no way in hell I'm fending day and night for babies by myself. Im my own handy man most days according to the hour shit happens... Kids won't work for everyone and aren't easy to care for in my opinion
He was first to suggest anyway that we don't have kids... and I had felt that way anyhow.
You dont even want to have kids eventually?
If When I'm old? Sounds like a bad idea to have children that time
Older, like 25-30 haha You are 19 so things will change. Women always regret not having kids
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Only thing we have to do is die. Will your parents kill you?
No. Men with children who are busy and tire..I'm saying that people become busy and too tired for romance sometimes... And based on statistics couples with children have more divorces
Does a man have more joy in caring for children than to have regular sex with his wife or do romantic stuff and adventures.
What usually happens is life, the older the kids are the more activities they are in. Both people are just fucking tired. It's not that they aren't still attracted to each other
over regular love making with your wife? I'm saying that people become busy and too tired for romance. And based on statistics couples with children have more divorces
I am married and we have a 1 year old and my wife is 3 months pregnant rn. Nothing has changed really.
Regular... key word is regular
We still have regular sex. It's not like we're just sitting around fucking all day. We both have jobs come home have dinner. When we make love it would be before bed. So that is still our routine.
Toddlers and Teenagers. Hmm
Well so far so good... good luck.
Great circumstance your moneu making jobs aren't more demanding
What do you mean by regular romance?
What makes you think that all couples have time for romance when they get kids?I don't refer to all couples. This question was for those in the specific situation z based upon statistics that explain why couples with children have more divorces than the childless
@lovingloverYou are confusing. What question overall are you trying to ask?
The question above. It is for persons who first the situation to answer.
Who *fit* the situation
@lovingloverWhat makes you think that all couples having kids means they do not love being with together?
I never said or thought that
They want but many don't find time according to records
There are people who have kids that have romance and those that don't.There are people without kids that have romance and those that don't.
Do you like to have kids?
In paradise. Not in this life... I wanna just have freedom to pursue goals and do adventures on spur of the moment with my soulmate without having to worry If its appropriate for the child or who will watch the child.I'll not subject them to life in this unpredictable and wicked world.
You have some good point and I like it
Thanks to you... but if I ever have a child I will take full responsibility... just I will do everything to avoid... I love children but prefer to be a great aunty or help out sometimes and not have full responsibility to lose sleep at night when my child is sick or deal with hormones changing... it's okay... and I love pets
Remember you used to be a child and your mom did so much for you tho
I know... this is why I don't want to be a mom. Moms can give their best and only do so much... I will give my best if I have unplanned pregnancy... but I will avoid becoming pregnant to my best ability
We should enjoy life first 😂
If I weren’t level 1 I’d wrote you
Huh? I didn't understand. If you weren't level one?
I meant I can’t send messages to you, I am new and I have to be level 2
When people have children, they become very busy and are often too tired for romance... it become about selflessness and caring for them as opposed to putting self first... according to statistics couples with children divorce more
Men who have children... the question is... is the joy or children (taking most your time caring for them) better the man what you had before chikdren?
Well I don't have a wife or children, so can't answer this one.
No. There are many orphans. If having kids is truly selfless then they would take them in. But people want their own kids.
Bad things happen all the time... someone i know husband got cancer suddenly and they have a newborn... needmoney donated.. I truly love kids and won't subject them to an unpredictable wicked world.
It's like people who want pets and can't care the best it's not love. It's selfishness