Why would a man give me his number without me asking for it?

Question

I followed a man on Instagram 3 months ago. He didn't follow me back. But he accepted my message request and since then I started messaging him. I am always the one who texts first and he replies. Sometimes he replies and sometimes he leaves me on read. He is 14 years older than me. Last week I asked him just a random question and asked him his opinion. No reply from him ( I don't even remember if he had seen my text). But once he had missed my text. So I just sent him this😅 emoji. The next day (almost after 12 hours), he, instead of answering the question, just messaged this: "Hello. His no. This my number... u can call me at night"
He still doesn't follow me back but since my profile is public, he has viewed my IG story only two times...1 - When we first talked and 2 - on the day when he gave me his number.
I am curious to know why he gave his number suddenly out of nowhere and that without me asking for it. And I'm a little bit confused also. What do you think from all this?

Answer 1

btbc92 | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He wants a hookup. Most men at those ages seek a sexual relationship with women your age because they want what they want. That's why. You do not have to accept his number.

itsquirky

30 d
Ok. Thanks for the answer.

Answer 2

itsquirky

Ok. Thanks for the answer.

Answer 3

zamasux

Xper 4

He gave you his number because many men don't want to be a creep to ask girl's number. If she is good with this she will call me, that's fine.
But what give a not good vibe, he said you can call me at night. Why just night?
🤔

itsquirky

1 mo
Even I thought this but the thing is he never showed sure signs of interest, like for example, he has never texted me first and sometimes even left me on read. Also I did not mention this earlier but after 2 days I called him, but he said he's in a meeting and asked me if I can call him the next day, around 12 pm. Now what's your take on this?
zamasux

1 mo
Does he think you have plenty of time to ping him as per his schedule? If he really want to have conversation he would take time off his schedule to talk with you. For example if you called me and I was busy at that moment I would have asked your convenient time to call you back. A person can be busy accepted but tell someone to contact later is kind of rude to me. Don't take his case too serious.
itsquirky

1 mo
Ha, you have a good and valid point here. I'll try not to think too much into this.😃

Answer 4

itsquirky

Even I thought this but the thing is he never showed sure signs of interest, like for example, he has never texted me first and sometimes even left me on read. Also I did not mention this earlier but after 2 days I called him, but he said he's in a meeting and asked me if I can call him the next day, around 12 pm. Now what's your take on this?

Answer 5

zamasux

Does he think you have plenty of time to ping him as per his schedule? If he really want to have conversation he would take time off his schedule to talk with you. For example if you called me and I was busy at that moment I would have asked your convenient time to call you back. A person can be busy accepted but tell someone to contact later is kind of rude to me. Don't take his case too serious.

Answer 6

itsquirky

Ha, you have a good and valid point here. I'll try not to think too much into this.😃

Answer 7

In_Trance | 2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Maybe he wants to talk to you but doesn't like the crap you post

itsquirky

1 mo
Hmm... that's possible. Thanks for the answer.

Answer 8

itsquirky

Hmm... that's possible. Thanks for the answer.

Answer 9

SphynxUK | 82 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

He’s not interested in you.
He would have instigated some text or chat by now. And to think you’ll call him at night? What’s wrong with the day?

itsquirky

1 mo
makes sense, if he was interested he would have intiated texts at least once. Thanks for the answer.
itsquirky

1 mo
Also I did not mention this earlier but after 2 days I called him, but he said he's in a meeting and asked me if I can call him the next day, around 12 pm. Now what's your take on this?
SphynxUK

1 mo
He was probably with his partner. Do you mean 12 noon? Surely not 12 at night? (When she’s asleep?) 🤔
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itsquirky

1 mo
Yup, I'm sure he said after 12 pm (12 noon). I don't know if he's single or not

Answer 10

itsquirky

makes sense, if he was interested he would have intiated texts at least once. Thanks for the answer.

Answer 11

itsquirky

Also I did not mention this earlier but after 2 days I called him, but he said he's in a meeting and asked me if I can call him the next day, around 12 pm. Now what's your take on this?

Answer 12

SphynxUK

He was probably with his partner. Do you mean 12 noon? Surely not 12 at night? (When she’s asleep?) 🤔

Answer 13

itsquirky

Yup, I'm sure he said after 12 pm (12 noon). I don't know if he's single or not

Answer 14

Avicenna | 3.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

If he's interested or assume you are, he will

itsquirky

1 mo
Ok... Thanks for the answer.

Answer 15

itsquirky

Ok... Thanks for the answer.

Answer 16

lanadelrey25 | 71 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Hmmmm... I wonder why? These confusing boys... smh

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