What’s your definition of creepy
Interesting explains why people might feel uncomfortable around me
My boss is like you. He's very introverted and smart, so his interactions and how he comes across can be off. Most of my colleagues ignore/avoid him because of it, I make the effort of talking to him, ignoring his nerves and now he's comfortable and starting to engage more openly.I really don't like the fact how most people don't take the time to be friendly/polite to awkward people, How does it make you feel if you think you make people uncomfortable? Or if they avoid talking to you?
Makes me feel horrible like when I feel like that I don’t want to leave my apartment it doesn’t really feel worth it. A few semesters ago I almost dropped all my classes because it started to get to me really bad where it seemed people didn’t want me around
That's sad :( Just remember, most of the anxiety you may have about what other people are thinking about you is in your head. People are so self absorbed that they barely notice or think about that minor thing you've done and might be freaking out about.
So I’m sitting there thinking I have no social skills and everyone is talking plus they probably think who is this ugly weird guy
You do have social skills, you might just need a bit more practice until you get comfortable with whoever you're talking to. You also may not be that bad. Like I said, anxiety can make mountains out of mole hills, and generally people rarely think/obsess about things others have done. If you're introverted, it's even harder to feel comfortable around people (I'm an introvert too, so I know).The right people will make you feel comfortable and the awkwardness will subside.
So what about the idea that everyone thinks I’m ugly https://imgur.com/a/fAwROiY when I not overly anxious about sitting there quiet when everyone is talking my attention immediately turns how ugly they probably think I am. It’s another major reason I absolutely can’t make eye contact
You are not ugly. If you hear girls whispering/smiling at you then it's because they think you're cute.Again, anxiety always makes us assume the worst. You look sad in the photo, so if that's you're normal, resting expression, practice smiling, talking while smiling, etc. You'd be surprised by how much it'll change your own mindset and how people perceive you. Smiling =happy, friendly - do it often enough and you'll start to change your mindset and how people perceive you. People are drawn to those who look friendly and nice - often if you smile at people, they smile back.
Yep that’s my normal expression, I always thought my worst feature was my overall face like I thought it was so gross and hideous
Nope, nothing wrong with you except you're just missing a smile. Seriously though, next time you go out to shops/wherever, just practice smiling at random people or saying hello while smiling, it'll change the way people interact with you. **just remember that some people are just rude anyway - so don't take it personal as it has nothing to do with you **
So I’m not really ugly cause no girl has ever came near me
No, you're not ugly. Girls are unlikely to approach in general, but if you're awkward and seem unfriendly (not smiling) then that makes them even less likely to approach or interact.If you think about two girls, one is smiling amd laughing, the other is quiet and seems bored/uninterested, who would you be more likely to approach or want to speak to? The one who seems friendly right?Once you work on your social skills, you'll be fine :)
I hope so because being totally honest I have never had a girlfriend I don’t know what it’s like to even kiss or hold hands with a girl
Plenty of people in your shoes, work on practising your social skills and you'll get there :)
Take a guess at what kind of girls I like
I'd guess introverted, geeky girls?
Not so much
Oh? What's your type?
So I’m really into blondes
Loud, social butterfly blondes?
Kind of I don’t stand a chance with my looks do I?
Nothing wrong with your looks. People are attracted to all sorts of different looks and appearances, but looks only get you so far anyway -personality and confidence is a huge factor with attraction.
So a blonde would go for me what about the fact I’m mixed
Doesn't really matter what race you are, if someone likes you, they like you.
Yeah think I would get really giddy if a blonde was into me
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Yeah I’m extremely self conscious