Why do cheating men hypocritically get mad at their mistresses for the damage to their families?

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#1. A man is emotionally cheating with an old flame. His wife objects. Since he never had sex with the woman, he says calling her baby, babe, and bae are acceptable. Also, saying I love you and sending her money when she requests it. His wife requests that he stop, since they are struggling as well. 10+ years later, his friend desperately needs money to give her children presents. He sends a few presents. The woman posts a room with many, many presents her kids received. His wife compares the pictures to their childrens' meager presents. She says the woman has been scamming him, never tries to see him, doesn't contact him for his birthday or holidays, doesn't even know the names of his wife or children, so how was she ever really his friend? Suddenly, he's angry. He blames her from taking from his wife and kids and causing a wedge.

#2. A man meets a woman from Tinder while his wife away. She invites him home that night. He asks her about STDs and birth control. She says everything is fine. They have sex, he cums in her repeatedly. He visits her again, sleeps over again. He asks her to be his. She brings up that he probably has a cold sore virus, because she's having an outbreak on her mouth. He trusts her. They have sex 15+ times. His wife finds out. He tells her the other woman is clean, pretends to break up with the other woman, doesn't, has sex with her more, confides his wife's secrets with her. The woman tries to get him to leave him wife using his own words against him. Everything blows up in his face. To top it off, his wife has a herpes breakout, because the cold sore virus is herpes and can cause genital herpes. He's angry that the girlfriend did not tell him it was herpes. He suddenly starts calling the other woman a whore, is furious with her, says he hates her. He says she did all of this.

Why are they so disgusted and angry at women for situations they chose to be in and helped to arrange and keep going?
Why do cheating men hypocritically get mad at their mistresses for the damage to their families?
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#3. A man is cheating with two women. One is his fiancee, the other his girlfriend. His girlfriend cheats on him and passes along chlamydia. He infects his fiancee. The fiancee finds out and tells him. He confronts his girlfriend, and she admits to cheating and apologizes. He is furious with the girlfriend for lying and cheating, the same thing he did, and begins thinking about posting revenge porn of her and decides she infected his fiancee and her cheating was bad.
Why do cheating men hypocritically get mad at their mistresses for the damage to their families?
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