A lady Brooke who worked at the gym happened to see it. She told me
Even worse then. I read that you want to save your marriage, by all means do counselling, etc, but I think it's going to be very hard for you to move past this, especially if she didn't tell you herself.I wouldn't be surprised if there's been other things like this that she's done that you know nothing about. Red flag that she did it because she was "attracted to him"
She admitted she is attracted to him
Thanks for the input and yes I do trust my instincts. Right now I would prefer to work it out
I like how you think. Especially getting even
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No! We all three work in the fitness industry, but she willingly gave this jerk a massage
what kind of massage and where did they do this?
Full body. It was in a massage room at the gym where we all work
Did she say why she did it? ..
find a woman there (preferably hot as fk) and give her a full body massage in that room alone then we will see what how she will feel about it smh
Yes, we discussed it. She admitted to being attracted to him and offered him a massage
then the real question is why are you still the husband? Drop her. smh.
Sorry to hear that man. You have two options. One is to leave her and the second is to accept that she will have sex with him if she doesn't already. Nothing you can do there. In your place i would look for other women already and leave her behind, run my dude.
Not that easy. We have been married 15 years and it was great until this massage
you see.. many people deal with infidelities and stay even when the person keeps on doing it over and over. In my opinion it is an awful way to live because if you truly love her or have any feelings for her, you will be hurt regardless.. and staying with such a person is only harmful to yourself and it is self inflicting because you choose to stay. Sometimes things work out after an infidelity and couples go back to being happy again.. but I doubt it.. People who disrespect their marriage once, they will likely do it again. That's fact. I personally would not put up with that. The only reason i would stay with a cheater is if I no longer loved him and he was giving me a good life. Why? Because if I don't love him, then he can't hurt me no matter who he fucks with.. I just won't be giving him any sexual stuff and i'd just take advantage of the nice life.. If i love someone, i would not stay because that's damage to myself. Be selfish. Take care of yourself!
Yes I agree! I am fully aware what a full body massage entails. It was wrong!
Thanks for your input. I am trying to sort through the why myself
Just an update
It’s pointless. Update the last question and stop spamming this shit.