Friends with benefits wants a serious relationship, just not with me?

Kimonono
So I've had this friends with benefits for about two years now, we don't meet up that often anymore (like once or twice a month) because we're both busy people, but when we do, its always fun. We talk for a few hours, and then hook up. Great, love it, wish it stayed like that. BUT now I found out he's on a dating app (no shock), and says he is looking for a serious relationship (BIG shock).
Honestly, I never wanted more from him than what we had, so I don't know why it bothers me that he didn't ask me out on a date or something... But it does.
SO I've got questions. Could it be that he doesn't even like me as a person? Is he not attracted to me? I know it's stupid I'm even bothered, but for some reason, it does bother me haha.
I just want things to go back to the way they were, before I knew this.
Friends with benefits wants a serious relationship, just not with me?
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