Sister kind of thinking. What does it mean when a guy says he sees me as a little sister? (Page 2)
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It probably means he isn't open to the idea of dating younger chicks. Which is the way I used to be.
Yes he likes older women
Okay, then. That settles it.
But lucky for you that means you have a big brother!
I know but I know I would be a good girlfriend though
Yes that’s true
Oh. Are you attracted to him?
I use to be
Okay. Well, I think there isn't much you can do about this situation, unfortunately, unless he changes his mind.
But just realize that he isn't rejecting YOU. He's rejecting your entire age cohort. He's rejecting all of the women in the entire world who are in your generation. So don't take it personally.
I know we had issues in the past I know he told me before but I was younger and I just saw him and apologized and he said we are still cool
Oh. What did you have to apologize for?
For annoying him and having a crush
Awwww
Can he change his mind?
He can. But that would mean changing his philosophy on what is the appropriate age gap for romantic relationships.
And he probably believes the way he does for good and honorable reasons. So that would be adjusting his ethics a bit. And that's not an easy thing to do.
Yes I get it but I guess it’s just hard too i think it’s bc I watch romance movies and they always get the girl etc and I don't know I’ve never had good luck with guys
Well, romantic movies HAVE to have a happy ending. Otherwise people wouldn't watch them.
I'd get pissed off if I sat down for the purpose of having a nice, relaxing evening and enjoying an inspiring story, and then the people end up breaking up or getting divorced just before they roll the credits.
That’s true 🤣
But at least I have an older brother who will protect me
Yeah! That's good! ☺️
It means that he sees you as his little sister if he's genuine or is just acting awkwardly and desperately to get close to a female: you.
It means he's waiting for you to get stuck... 🙄
Jk. But seriously I think it means he feels emotions towards you but can't act on them right now for whatever reason so he sees you as a sister. Someone you love but don't necessarily show it.
He's caring for you, it's the first part of developing a good relationship of trust.
It means he has platonic friendly feelings towards you but also feels protective of you like an older brother protects his little sister
Means he likes you as a friend - he will never want to be in a dating relationship.
He either...
1.) ... is not interested in sex but likes to be around you. (Is he gay?)
2.) ... is interested in sex but does not know how to talk to women.
3.) ... is interested in sex and is as creepy as it gets!
He’s not gay
I know he likes older women
He likes you, he might even look out for you, but he's never going to fuck you.
He isn't attracted to you but likes you as a person
He does not see you as a girlfriend but as nothing more as a sibling.