Did you have a crush on the guy? I know I did in the past with the guy I just saw him the other day and apologized and he said we were still good
No. And even if I did, I accepted that fact that a crush is just a crush. Back then we were far more mature about this in communication than what a lot of you are doing today. If I didn't care and love that person than I was being selfish. And that's not something that one should be pursuing for a relationship. And besides. I would not date somebody I was not compatible with. And sadly a lot of my male friends who were not compatible with especially concerning about faith, religion, Etc. Things that is very important. So it wouldn't have worked. And I'm glad I never took that step with them. We are still friends to this day. Been over 13 years.
Trust me when I say. It is not the end of the world, there is no such thing as a friend zone. You are friends. If you don't learn how to be friends, how are you going to be good partners? That's why you want to make sure that you are looking to be with that person for the right reasons. The feelings of a crush come and go. It's not a serious I'll let you choose to make it serious. But that's only if you already serious about the person. You can't go by how you feel, you got to go by what you already know and what you're willing to do and accept for a relationship. They have their life, and I have mine. You only going to be with one person for the rest of your life. At least that's how it's supposed to be. But I was not going to be with somebody I did not see a future with.
Yes I totally understand what you’re saying. He says we are still cool which is good and I do hope to have a good relationship with him. I’ll prob see him around more maybe. I do care about him bc he joined the sheriffs dept and I do hope he stays safe.
Yes, keep him in prayer, because he's going to have a lot of battles ahead of him and not just physically.
He’s had cancer before so I know he’s a tough man and he knows martial arts so he can take down people
That's good. Thank God that he is okay.
Yes! I am glad and I always tell people about him
But I did give him my number if he wanted to keep in contact I did have cookbooks I was giving away and I asked if he wanted to stop by and get some so I don't know if he will text me he said he will I don't know should I trust him
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