He threatened to expose my nudes if I left him
He threatened to expose my nudes if I left him
That is fucked up. I have nudes and videos of every partner except one and no matter how upset an ex might have made me. Those never see the light of day. Also there is one additional good reason not to share them, because I would be known as a guy who shares nudes, I would never get another girl to trust me ever.Well if he said he doesn't want you to leave then you know why he was upset at the other guys comments.He would be a fool to share your pics. If you are under age he could get in a lot of trouble, or if you just say you will tell people you were under age, that is a threat that will sober him up.
Are you a bot? you've said the exact same sentence to four different commenters.
No I'm not a bot... no I dont know why he doesn't want me to leave him
Do you want more than friends with benefits or no. It matters 😊
He threatens me to show my nudes online if I leave him
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He threatened to expose my nudes online if I left him
That is f'd up! Not much Friend in that friends with benefits! Do you have nudes of him to deter that?
Depends where you live but Revege Porn is illegal and could be prosecuted
Call me out whenever you want. You say I'm being "shitty" because I don't agree with you... such a fucking joke. If you look around, I'm far from the only one who feels this way about friends with benefits... guy or girl... sounds like you just can't/won't face that fact.I will give you credit for not being a coward anon.
Yeah it crap I'm not doing the casual thing anymore absolutely waste
Good for you. Now before you hit the wall and lose out on life completely, find a really great guy and develop a meaningful relationship. The sex will come naturally, and maybe he'll even be the one to marry. In any case, a committed relationship is SO much better, all the way around. You'll see. Yes it takes work and effort. Yes, it's hard. Yes it's worth it.
@laPrincesitaRoxiRespectfully, no he doesn't. He just doesn't want to lose his free 🥧 pie. If he really liked her he would want a real relationship with her. Not one based on disrespect.
Have you ever even had a friends with benefits? First of all once the jealously starts it’s him obviously trying to hold on for a reason, if he really just cared about the pussy he wouldn’t care about her personal life and would just stick to the other females he should be seeing to start or find another friends with benefits because he obviously cares a little too much now.
Not that's it relevant, but yes I have been in one of those sleazy arrangements when I was young, immature and had no respect for women. So if he likes her so much then why isn't he in a relationship with her? Jealousy has NOTHING to do with feelings for someone. It is about insecurity and control.
@spartan55 Respectfully , we dk if she wants a relationship based on the limited info in the post. A Woman in an friends with benefits is not there bc the guy won’t commit. Not everyone wants a relationship. Many women legitimately want friends with benefits. There are many reasons for this. But it’s common. I agree often someone wants more but I think in those cases they were not honest about it from the beginning. The ones who want a friends with benefits really just want a friends with benefits. Based on the update I do not think she wants anything with him. He is black mailing her. Do you have any suggestions I’m really not sure what to advise. He is threatening her to expose pics, if she leaves.
@VIVANT I agree with everything your saying and yikes he’s trying to blackmail her? 😩 he def doesn’t like her he’s freaking obsessed ! I feel so bad for her
Sorry, but there is no way you can say that just many girls want friends with benefits as guys... the evidence is on this forum, and I've seen it many times play out amongst people I've known. It just isn't true.
I asked her if it was her idea and she didn't answer. Come on, let's use some common sense.
Yes a lot of girls want friends with benefits likeMyself and that typically always mean we don’t want a relationship and based on how he’s acting clearly he’s the one who is having trouble actually getting that.
I’ve asked guys to be friends with benefits lol it doesn’t mean anything other than we tryna fuck
Yeah, you are the 1/10... it isn't common... at all.
It sounds like you’re just butthurt at this point and whichever female chose to use you for dick did the right thing lol
Eh, butthurt at what? Is that some of stupid insult? You have to take it there because someone doesn't agree with you? Grow up and learn how to debate.
I love how you presume and project. You don't know anything about me.
You are butthurt you literally went out your way to insult meFor explaining women who want friends with benefits don’tCare aboutRelationships I can tell you got fucked and left at some point and now hate women with friends with benefits or just want one and by the way you’ve insulted me before for having a friends with benefits too and I always see you mad ass shit in any girls comment looking for a friends with benefits and frankly it’s tell tell at this point.
Riiiiight... whatever you say crazy lady. Bye now.
Lol okay we’ll see if it’s a lie if I see your name again talking down on a women with a friends with benefits I’m callingYou out because you’re always shitty about it
Well, look at that? The asker just stated she isn't doing friends with benefits anymore... guess your sales job on how great it is failed... what a surprise... 😂😂
I see her comments and she’s stating it’s because she’s fucking scared at theWay this stinky ass man wants to by force control her even though she clearly doesn’t want that and also a lot of the times guys do get weird and start trying to get controlling it’s gross
I wonder why he wants to keep me staying tho
He caught feelings and now wants you allTo himself, don’t let these guys try and degrade you Nd makeYou feel like that’s not what’s happening because you’re his friends with benefits when That’s exactly what’s happening. He’s obsessed at this point that’s just the undeniable truth he’s doing wayyy tooMuch.
@askerReally? He wants you to stay because he doesn't want to lose his free 🥧 pie. IT'S SIMPLE.
He hasn't caught any fucking feelings... believe that.
That’s a lie, there’s plenty of women looking for friends with benefits and if it was just that he wouldn’t be going to above and beyond to isolate her wtf that’s definitely not normalfriends with benefits behavior
Lmfaooo he clearly has, he actually thinks she belongs to him and should. That isn't his girl to be trying to hold onto that hard. He shouldn’tEven just be with herTo start like she’s not his girl
We disagree on this, not a big deal to me. Apparently it is to you though because you have to start throwing insults and talking shit. I've been nothing but respectful with you.
Something got you from what I just said because I didn’t even insult you.
"whatever female used you for dick did the right thing"... not an insult... you girls truly have zero shame.
Okay I apologize I shouldn’t have told you that
Accepted, I appreciate you owning it.
He tells me what to wear and how I style my hair wtf he is doing
Just dump him, geez... is this all you think you are worth?