When a guy seems interested for some time, them suddenly he and his best friend start to ignores you. Why that change out of blue?

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I've know this two guys from campus and them and my friend hang with other people sometimes. We know each other for some times now and I started to notice this guy acts a bit weird. He would stare at me and smile and tried to make a conversation with me when my friend wasn't around. Sometimes even when I wouldn't give him attention when he would come stand next to me he would become mean to me for a bit. He's always next to me standing and if he's not his looking my way. I added him after few weeks of hanging on fb and he accepted. Next time we saw each other he was really tried to talk to me, he was different in a good way. We saw each other after that 1-2 times and It was okey but didn't happened anything more. After that my friend added him on ig and i did to. He followed back my guy friend and ignored me. Yesterday I saw him and his friend and they saw me coming their way and they just ignored me like they don't know me. I did not know how to react.

Why would they start to ignore me out of blue? What should I do? If I talk to him I think he would just act like it didn't happened.

He's not really interested

He thinks you're not interested

He wasn't interested in first place

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GuardGuy24

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He made his efforts in the beginning to make advancements and you weren't receptive. So he moved on. Are you interested in him? If so why did you wait until he has moved on to make your own advancements?

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I do like him, but I'm shy and he's talkative so I guess he didn't notice. I didn't do anything more cause I wan't sure about how he acts around me and he didn't ask me out or tried to be with me alone. I don't want to make it awkward in group...

What do I do now? I can't do any bold move and I don't know how can I make it obvious to him. I just freak out when I see him.

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GuardGuy24

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If you like him then I think you should just send an outright message to him. We men dont really catch the subtleties most of the time. But that is me. I dont like beating around the Bush.

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Well I think most of the men don't. I added him so I can make it easier with him maybe to text me and start conversation but he didn't.
I don't know if I text him now would he even reply or just ignore me again.

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GuardGuy24

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Well I believe the answer to you last question is that if you send him a message anyways saying that you are interested in him and he ignores you. Then he just isn't that into you. And if he doesn't respond to your advancements then he is the wrong guy for you in the first place

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I do like him, but I'm shy and he's talkative so I guess he didn't notice. I didn't do anything more cause I wan't sure about how he acts around me and he didn't ask me out or tried to be with me alone. I don't want to make it awkward in group...

What do I do now? I can't do any bold move and I don't know how can I make it obvious to him. I just freak out when I see him.

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GuardGuy24

If you like him then I think you should just send an outright message to him. We men dont really catch the subtleties most of the time. But that is me. I dont like beating around the Bush.

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Asker

Well I think most of the men don't. I added him so I can make it easier with him maybe to text me and start conversation but he didn't.
I don't know if I text him now would he even reply or just ignore me again.

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GuardGuy24

Well I believe the answer to you last question is that if you send him a message anyways saying that you are interested in him and he ignores you. Then he just isn't that into you. And if he doesn't respond to your advancements then he is the wrong guy for you in the first place

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magiusX26 | 930 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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because you waited to long to show any intetest back

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I did like him and I still do.. i showed interest but not maybe enough so he could figure out. Should I try to talk to him about it alone?

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magiusX26

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likely too late now. as to "maybe not enough to figure out", here is a tip about us guys, we suck at reading subtle signs. some of us can't tell unless told bluntly "i like you in that way" or some version of that.

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I hope it's not... I don't know what to do now :/ It's stupid if we like each other to ignore each other cause non of us made a move

Well i don't get those signals eather.. If he asked me for caffe or something I would notice that but just doing this I taught it's just in my head..

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Asker

I did like him and I still do.. i showed interest but not maybe enough so he could figure out. Should I try to talk to him about it alone?

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magiusX26

likely too late now. as to "maybe not enough to figure out", here is a tip about us guys, we suck at reading subtle signs. some of us can't tell unless told bluntly "i like you in that way" or some version of that.

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Asker

I hope it's not... I don't know what to do now :/ It's stupid if we like each other to ignore each other cause non of us made a move

Well i don't get those signals eather.. If he asked me for caffe or something I would notice that but just doing this I taught it's just in my head..

When a guy seems interested for some time, them suddenly he and his best friend start to ignores you. Why that change out of blue?

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