Is it normal for a guy to want to see his female friend often?

Question

He always wants to see her. It used to be 3-4x a week then COVID hit and it stopped. But now he is back to messaging her often to meet up. They also text... so I don't know WHY he needs to meet up with her? I asked him why and he didn't tell me much- just that she knows him better than anyone.

She is married and I know they aren't hooking up because she is a goody-goody girl and so is he. But I am jealous that he wants to see her so much. No- we aren't together lol I just crush on him from afar.

Answer 1

HollyK21 | 318 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Well he probably wouldn’t be so inclined to see her often if he had a girlfriend. Right now though, while there’s no one else to consider or offend, he’s just doing his thing. If it were a guy best friend, most likely you wouldn’t feel this way, so no need to be envious of their friendship.

Asker

2 mo
Im just worried he is into her. And it pisses me off lol
HollyK21

2 mo
So why don’t you just tell him you like him? If you haven’t already.

Answer 2

Asker

Im just worried he is into her. And it pisses me off lol

Answer 3

HollyK21

So why don’t you just tell him you like him? If you haven’t already.

Answer 4

Evgri5858

Xper 1

Probably they may be getting closer emotionally which can be dangerousn if it isn't already because one or more of them is married.

Answer 5

JPrez | 242 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

A guy would only do this if he has feelings for her or they have started a sexual relationship.

Asker

2 mo
But he is dating. And I’m one of the girls he was talking to. Ur saying he can be talking to me and other and want that married woman?
JPrez

2 mo
Yes. There are definitely guys that would do this. I’m not condoning it but there are guys that are capable and probably enjoy juggling women.

Answer 6

Asker

But he is dating. And I’m one of the girls he was talking to. Ur saying he can be talking to me and other and want that married woman?

Answer 7

JPrez

Yes. There are definitely guys that would do this. I’m not condoning it but there are guys that are capable and probably enjoy juggling women.

Answer 8

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

depends, have these friends fucked before?

Asker

2 mo
Nope. Never kissed or anything. And I know its fact
chriscdi

2 mo
maybe he just has no one anymore and is lonely and is trying to keep everyone in his life he could
Asker

2 mo
i thought that. but he has a huge group of friends! And they have girlfriends he can go to ya know?
he's not lacking on people to go to
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chriscdi

2 mo
during this quarantine maybe
Asker

2 mo
nope. Each weekend he is at a party or friends house.
Its not quarenteen where we are.
chriscdi

2 mo
maybe he just likes you
Asker

2 mo
You mean her? I rarely see him or speak to him
But she is married. WHY would he want to be around her?
chriscdi

2 mo
married doesn't mean shit in our society anymore
Asker

2 mo
So u think he is into her?
chriscdi

2 mo
yea probably, at least lusting over her

Answer 9

Asker

Nope. Never kissed or anything. And I know its fact

Answer 10

chriscdi

maybe he just has no one anymore and is lonely and is trying to keep everyone in his life he could

Answer 11

Asker

i thought that. but he has a huge group of friends! And they have girlfriends he can go to ya know?
he's not lacking on people to go to

Answer 12

chriscdi

during this quarantine maybe

Answer 13

Asker

nope. Each weekend he is at a party or friends house.
Its not quarenteen where we are.

Answer 14

chriscdi

maybe he just likes you

Answer 15

Asker

You mean her? I rarely see him or speak to him
But she is married. WHY would he want to be around her?

Answer 16

chriscdi

married doesn't mean shit in our society anymore

Answer 17

Asker

So u think he is into her?

Answer 18

chriscdi

yea probably, at least lusting over her

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