What should I do [i'm really very worried]?

Question

There's a boy I've been talking for a month. he told me he loves me and the day before yesterday I told him that I am leaving Instagram and other social media just because I want to. he replied with don't leave me and some sad emotional kinds of stuff, I said I can't help, and then he told me that he'll kill himself and it's not the first time and he tried to kill himself earlier because of some big problems. I still temporarily disabled my account and now I've been worried about him, and today I went back to my account and saw he hasn't been active since the time we last talked.

Answer 1

SueShe | 369 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Don't give in to pressure.

People that are really that desperate to commit suicide usually don't announce it and seldom publicize it.

Unfortunately, this is a pathetic attempt to keep you hooked and to give you a bad conscience but rest assured, nothing will happen if you remove your account.

This type of people suffer from some psychological issues and need professional help. By telling you that he will commit suicide, he wants your attention and nothing more. Him not being active since you talked last is just a scheme to manipulate you. Don't fall for this kind of manipulation.

The best for you is definitely to sever the ties with this guy because otherwise you are letting yourself into something that will be very difficult to get out. This guy is manipulative and the least you have to do with him, the better for you and your sanity.

Asker

2 mo
yea okk

Answer 2

Asker

yea okk

Answer 3

Anonymous

Firstly this isn't your fault remember that and secondly it's up to you if you want to try and reach out to him again i don't know if he just wants you to worry about him or not the i think the ball is in your court if you don't want to be on social media then that is your choice nobody should make you stay especially through guilt or something

Asker

2 mo
yea but i don't want him to take a suicidal step
Opinion Owner

2 mo
I know you don't but it could be just to put you on a guilt trip i mean i don't know him or his situation and why he tried to do it before. I know it's not the same but my wife apparently tried and now I live with the guilt and fear if I leave again she will and it's not fair to live like that but this is just my opinion but you should do what you think is right but please don't fall into a trap like I have
Asker

2 mo
so, should I talk to him or leave him?
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Opinion Owner

2 mo
If it makes you feel better talk to him but explain what he said isn't fair on you and if he loved you he wouldn't of said what he did. If you do speak to him can you let me know he is OK please
Asker

2 mo
ok I'll let you know
Asker

2 mo
I've messaged him rn
let see what he replies
Opinion Owner

2 mo
Thank you and hope all goes well

Answer 4

Asker

yea but i don't want him to take a suicidal step

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

I know you don't but it could be just to put you on a guilt trip i mean i don't know him or his situation and why he tried to do it before. I know it's not the same but my wife apparently tried and now I live with the guilt and fear if I leave again she will and it's not fair to live like that but this is just my opinion but you should do what you think is right but please don't fall into a trap like I have

Answer 6

Asker

so, should I talk to him or leave him?

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

If it makes you feel better talk to him but explain what he said isn't fair on you and if he loved you he wouldn't of said what he did. If you do speak to him can you let me know he is OK please

Answer 8

Asker

ok I'll let you know

Answer 9

Asker

I've messaged him rn
let see what he replies

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

Thank you and hope all goes well

Answer 11

Anonymous

Tell his parents. Call the cops to do a wellness check on him.

Asker

2 mo
yess
Opinion Owner

2 mo
You should also be careful around him; he sounds manipulative.
Asker

2 mo
kind of

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

You should also be careful around him; he sounds manipulative.

Answer 13

Asker

kind of

Answer 14

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Is there a way you can talk to his parents

Asker

2 mo
no, but he is very sucidal
Iron_Man

2 mo
Well you probably should do something you don’t want that on your conscience
Asker

2 mo
yea I don't want someone to die
I'm really worried
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Iron_Man

2 mo
Then go ahead and talk to his parents ASAP and I hope everything works out OK
Asker

2 mo
how can I talk to his parents? I don't have no. of his parents
Iron_Man

2 mo
Do you have any kind of information on him at all did he give you something if not you’re just gonna have to talk to him and start off by saying are you OK then work up to getting his phone number and keep that on file in case of an emergency
Asker

2 mo
yea thanks for your advice
means a lot
Iron_Man

2 mo
You’re very welcome I’m glad that I can help you

Answer 15

Asker

no, but he is very sucidal

Answer 16

Iron_Man

Well you probably should do something you don’t want that on your conscience

Answer 17

Asker

yea I don't want someone to die
I'm really worried

Answer 18

Iron_Man

Then go ahead and talk to his parents ASAP and I hope everything works out OK

Answer 19

Asker

how can I talk to his parents? I don't have no. of his parents

Answer 20

Iron_Man

Do you have any kind of information on him at all did he give you something if not you’re just gonna have to talk to him and start off by saying are you OK then work up to getting his phone number and keep that on file in case of an emergency

Answer 21

Asker

yea thanks for your advice
means a lot

Answer 22

Iron_Man

You’re very welcome I’m glad that I can help you

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