Boyfriend didn’t text me all day, and when I called he declined & said text me.. does that mean he was cheating?

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He stopped texting me around 9 and when I asked if he was with a girl said I’m overthinking but wouldn’t give me a yes or no answer , kept trying to change the subject of the conversation saying I don’t need to answer your questions but it’s a yes or no if you were with a female why can’t you just tell me , I asked why he didn’t text me all day he was like he was Chillen and occupied

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spartan55 | 22.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Damn, you went from 0-100 and think he is cheating because of that? You either don't trust him, or have some serious insecurity issues. Either way, YOU need to recognize your behavior and actions in order to move on to his. His responses show that he is clearly annoyed with you accusing him of cheating. You will be dumped eventually if you keep acting this way.

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Marilynjuana | 206 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Just from reading that it's clear you two are not compatible..

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Anonymous

Soundsclike he was dipping his wick into another girl.

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Opinion Owner

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*sounds like*

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Opinion Owner

*sounds like*

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PaganWarrior

Xper 5

Probably watching porn or gaming.

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Iron_Man | 10.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No it doesn’t mean that

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DavidFox

Yoda

Sounds like he was at work

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He don’t even work rn lol that’s why I asked what was he doing and he wouldn’t give me an answer but” I was Chillen and laid up I was occupied “ I said we’re you with a girl he was like I’m not about to answer your dumbass overthinking questions

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DavidFox

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When is the last time you all had sex?

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Asker

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We had it Monday

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DavidFox

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Then it’s less likely he was cheating on you. Maybe he’s gambling of doing something you would disapprove of.

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Asker

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He said he was playing on the game , laid up and Chillen but I just don’t get why I ask you something and you can’t just give a yes or no question

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DavidFox

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Because that’s how us guys are. When playing a game with want to disconnect from all responsibilities and that also includes our SO. It’s a total escape and we focus on the fantasy world of the game. Obviously this causes friction with girls because girls sense when guys disconnect from them and want to reestablish the connection.

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Asker

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Yeah that’s why I asked cause he kept saying he was Chillen and didn’t text me for hours I was trying to ignore it but then how he started acting when I asked the question seemed like he was lying

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DavidFox

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That’s the guilt he feels because he’s a guy and also knows that girls get pissed off when we go missing in action for hours on end.

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Asker

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He was like “ I’m not dealing with you and your overthinking , I’m not answering your dumb ass questions “ it just seemed like he was with somebody

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DavidFox

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He was with the game

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Asker

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But he also said he was laid up Chillen , maybe I am overthinking but I don't know

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Asker

He don’t even work rn lol that’s why I asked what was he doing and he wouldn’t give me an answer but” I was Chillen and laid up I was occupied “ I said we’re you with a girl he was like I’m not about to answer your dumbass overthinking questions

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DavidFox

When is the last time you all had sex?

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Asker

We had it Monday

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DavidFox

Then it’s less likely he was cheating on you. Maybe he’s gambling of doing something you would disapprove of.

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Asker

He said he was playing on the game , laid up and Chillen but I just don’t get why I ask you something and you can’t just give a yes or no question

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DavidFox

Because that’s how us guys are. When playing a game with want to disconnect from all responsibilities and that also includes our SO. It’s a total escape and we focus on the fantasy world of the game. Obviously this causes friction with girls because girls sense when guys disconnect from them and want to reestablish the connection.

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Asker

Yeah that’s why I asked cause he kept saying he was Chillen and didn’t text me for hours I was trying to ignore it but then how he started acting when I asked the question seemed like he was lying

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DavidFox

That’s the guilt he feels because he’s a guy and also knows that girls get pissed off when we go missing in action for hours on end.

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Asker

He was like “ I’m not dealing with you and your overthinking , I’m not answering your dumb ass questions “ it just seemed like he was with somebody

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DavidFox

He was with the game

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Asker

But he also said he was laid up Chillen , maybe I am overthinking but I don't know

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Anonymous

Yep.

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In_Trance | 7.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

no it doesn't

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