The guy I'm currently causally seeing says everytime I have an argument it knocks me back with him what does he mean?

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TremorJay | 96 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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He's saying that he wants to see you as something more serious, but he doesn't like the arguing. Personally, I'd say it's too early to be arguing, especially since you say it's "casual". It sounds like you have chemistry, but not compatibility

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Asker

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Why is he still trying to make things work with me when he can get somebody else
TremorJay

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He probably likes getting laid, and it's not always easy to find someone else
Asker

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I live about 1000 miles away
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Asker

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He keeps talking about what is going wrong with us
TremorJay

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Oh really? He's probably just lonely then
Asker

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He also threatened to post my nudes if I left him
Asker

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he's so mad that we didn't live together be cause of me
TremorJay

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What exactly are you getting out of this relationship?

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Asker

Why is he still trying to make things work with me when he can get somebody else

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TremorJay

He probably likes getting laid, and it's not always easy to find someone else

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Asker

I live about 1000 miles away

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Asker

He keeps talking about what is going wrong with us

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TremorJay

Oh really? He's probably just lonely then

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Asker

He also threatened to post my nudes if I left him

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Asker

he's so mad that we didn't live together be cause of me

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TremorJay

What exactly are you getting out of this relationship?

Answer 10

winterfox10

Master

He means that the arguments you have with him make him feel less inclined to date you seriously. Depending on what the arguments are about, it could be a pretty manipulative thing to say.

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Why is he still trying to make things work with me when he can get somebody else
winterfox10

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Because he has you. A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush
Asker

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So weird I dont understand him because I live a 1000 miles away

Answer 11

Asker

Why is he still trying to make things work with me when he can get somebody else

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winterfox10

Because he has you. A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush

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Asker

So weird I dont understand him because I live a 1000 miles away

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Smoke-n-Growls | 236 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

So much context missing. It's too hard to say without more details.

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Well he said he wanted to move in with me but my tantrums keep knocking me back apparently
Smoke-n-Growls

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So, here's the thing... He might have reason, he might not.

He is made uncomfortable by your "tantrums" - which, fair, tantrums are acceptable until the age of, like, eight or something - and wants a more stable person to share his home with.

Fair enough, that's his right.

Are your tantrums actually tantrums? Or are you legitimately getting mad with good reason?

Because if you're getting mad with good reason and you're just pointing out what is making you angry, then he's attempting to control and censor you. Perhaps not consciously, even.

How would you describe your "tantrums"? What was your latest one about and what did you say/do?
Asker

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But sometimes his tone when he messages me can annoy me thats why I tantrum with him

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Asker

Well he said he wanted to move in with me but my tantrums keep knocking me back apparently

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Smoke-n-Growls

So, here's the thing... He might have reason, he might not.

He is made uncomfortable by your "tantrums" - which, fair, tantrums are acceptable until the age of, like, eight or something - and wants a more stable person to share his home with.

Fair enough, that's his right.

Are your tantrums actually tantrums? Or are you legitimately getting mad with good reason?

Because if you're getting mad with good reason and you're just pointing out what is making you angry, then he's attempting to control and censor you. Perhaps not consciously, even.

How would you describe your "tantrums"? What was your latest one about and what did you say/do?

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Asker

But sometimes his tone when he messages me can annoy me thats why I tantrum with him

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spartan55 | 22K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He means you are a pain in the ass.

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jizzyjay | 57 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Means ure 3rd in line

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In_Trance | 7.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

It means you need to ask him for clarification

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Anonymous

It means he doesn’t like your opinions

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Yes but what does knock me back mean
Opinion Owner

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So to me it means1 step forward and 2 steps back

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Asker

Yes but what does knock me back mean

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

So to me it means1 step forward and 2 steps back

The guy I'm currently causally seeing says everytime I have an argument it knocks me back with him what does he mean?

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