Why do all my guy friends end up liking me?

Question

I really want a guy bestie but all my guy friends end up confessing their feelings for me.. Its so frustrating

Answer 1

Avicenna | 3.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

That probably means you have a good personality as well as being attractive. So it’s totally normal.
The real problem is that these guys are single and therefore looking for a girlfriend, but the girlfriend of a guy that won’t fall for you if he is in a relationship will never be OK with you having him as your bestie.

Rose001

1 mo
Ya... Sucks

Answer 2

Rose001

Ya... Sucks

Answer 3

Anonymous

I mean, why wouldn't they?
If they're single and if they're friend is attractive (very common) then why wouldn't they?
This is a very common complaint and it never stops being weird that girls expect a guy to try to be your friend instead pursuing something more. It's easier to be friend with guys that aren't single, but you're probably not going to be his bestie, his partner would be.

Answer 4

Warmapplecrumble | 252 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I think it's normal. I kinda stopped looking for friends cause of this reason. It's like even the girls want a relationship 😂

Gwenhwyfar

1 mo
😂😂😂
Warmapplecrumble

1 mo
@Gwenhwyfar 😂😂 I like your name what does it mean?
Gwenhwyfar

1 mo
It’s a variation on Guinevere, King Arthur’s wife. Guinevere was taken 😂.

I like yours too 😊. Warm and homey.
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Warmapplecrumble

1 mo
@Gwenhwyfar 😊 thanks

Answer 5

Gwenhwyfar

😂😂😂

Answer 6

Warmapplecrumble

@Gwenhwyfar 😂😂 I like your name what does it mean?

Answer 7

Gwenhwyfar

It’s a variation on Guinevere, King Arthur’s wife. Guinevere was taken 😂.

I like yours too 😊. Warm and homey.

Answer 8

Warmapplecrumble

@Gwenhwyfar 😊 thanks

Answer 9

Anonymous

Maybe you need an international friend so he is too far away to make a move.

Rose001

1 mo
Tried... End result was the same , am not even kidding
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Man, you must be hot.
Rose001

1 mo
Well kinda but their r so many hot ones out their.. Whyy me
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Opinion Owner

1 mo
Don't know without seeing a picture of you.

Answer 10

Rose001

Tried... End result was the same , am not even kidding

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

Man, you must be hot.

Answer 12

Rose001

Well kinda but their r so many hot ones out their.. Whyy me

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Don't know without seeing a picture of you.

Answer 14

Anonymous

Guys can mistake friendliness for interests, so you have to make it clear to them that you only want to be friends and make it very very very clear.

Answer 15

Posterboy56 | 89 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

Because you're female. And unless you're really unattractive, as in if you're even moderately attractive, you don't have any male friends, sis. You only think you do.

Rose001

1 mo
💔🥺
Posterboy56

1 mo
Just how it is. Please be aware that this is something you have the privilege to completely take for granted-- their feelings and desires, I mean-- since we as males don't get the opportunity to be in the same position, ever. We wish we could be, but we never will be.

Answer 16

Rose001

💔🥺

Answer 17

Posterboy56

Just how it is. Please be aware that this is something you have the privilege to completely take for granted-- their feelings and desires, I mean-- since we as males don't get the opportunity to be in the same position, ever. We wish we could be, but we never will be.

Answer 18

Gwenhwyfar | 445 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Happens to me too. Just be patient. You’ll find the right guy best friend.

Gwenhwyfar

1 mo
One of the hazards of being pretty

Answer 19

Gwenhwyfar

One of the hazards of being pretty

Answer 20

AmeerX | 775 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

You can be bestie and in love both. Try telling him you want both and see the reaction

Answer 21

jordancitokin

Xper 2

You could confide in a friend at random, and if he understands your frustration then maybe you want to promote him to bestie. If not, you could always ask the friend you like most.

Answer 22

GreenGold1992 | 2.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

feelings develop and change over time

if you want a guy bestie, find somebody gay

Answer 23

KingChris08

Xper 4

They wanna be more than friends cause they all think you’re beautiful and they like your personality

Answer 24

ItsTheNephilim | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Get used to it. It happens.

Answer 25

chriscdi | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

guy besties can only be gay

Rose001

1 mo
Oh come on...
chriscdi

1 mo
or a guy that only sees you as a sister which isn't easy to find either, opposite gender friendships are very rare to find because they dont work, eventually the guy you friendzoned would get tired of your shit and leave, like i said, only guy friend you can have has to either be gay or not find you attractive and see you like a sister which if you are attractive, i wish you luck
Rose001

1 mo
🥺💔

Answer 26

Rose001

Oh come on...

Answer 27

chriscdi

or a guy that only sees you as a sister which isn't easy to find either, opposite gender friendships are very rare to find because they dont work, eventually the guy you friendzoned would get tired of your shit and leave, like i said, only guy friend you can have has to either be gay or not find you attractive and see you like a sister which if you are attractive, i wish you luck

Answer 28

Rose001

🥺💔

Answer 29

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

That’s why I say men and women can’t be friends

Rose001

1 mo
I have friends who are besties .. opp gender

Answer 30

Rose001

I have friends who are besties .. opp gender

Answer 31

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

guys and girls can't be friends

Answer 32

Anonymous

You're pretty?

Rose001

1 mo
Kinda.. But there r so many other pretty ones too
Opinion Owner

1 mo
Yes, but you are the pretty cool one.
Rose001

1 mo
Its stupid
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Opinion Owner

1 mo
Well I'm probably too old to be your friend; but I would do it and be able to not develop feelings for you as I already have feelings for another. And I am a one woman man.

Answer 33

Rose001

Kinda.. But there r so many other pretty ones too

Answer 34

Opinion Owner

Yes, but you are the pretty cool one.

Answer 35

Rose001

Its stupid

Answer 36

Opinion Owner

Well I'm probably too old to be your friend; but I would do it and be able to not develop feelings for you as I already have feelings for another. And I am a one woman man.

Answer 37

Anonymous

You can be beautiful

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