Guys, how does it feel when you fall for a girl at first sight?

Question

I could never fall for a guy at first sight. I need to know the person first which then makes me fall for them.

Like how do you feel & what goes through your mind?

Answer 1

Sukituki

Xper 4

I don't know, maybe I'm a special case I guess? But for me, when I first saw the guy I now call my husband, I didn't know him at all. Never talked before, never seen him before, and it was my first day on the job. I saw him from across the building and somehow it felt familiar. Like he was someone I've known forever. There was a warm feeling in my gut (like when you haven't seen a loved one or friend in forever and you are finally reunited) and something in my brain was saying "Finally!" My heart didn't speed up or skip a beat, instead it slowed to a calming beat like it felt safe. It wasn't an attraction like lust. It felt more like admiration and respect. It was so strange I avoided him for as long as I could.

Answer 2

SeanshterMonster | 66 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Hmm. It only happen once. But it consists of butterflies, gittyness, happiness, the want to be around them and talk to them, know them. I eventually made the first move and we went out together and dated for 5 months before she dumped me telling me she never loved me when I fell in love with her and I'm still broken hearted 1 year and 2 months later

Asker

1 mo
Why would you want to be around them?
SeanshterMonster

1 mo
Because they make me happy. Just hearing their voice and them talking about things they love lights up their eyes
Asker

1 mo
What if she talks to you when you're around her?
Show All Show Less
SeanshterMonster

1 mo
I would like that.
Asker

1 mo
Is she smiles at you?
SeanshterMonster

1 mo
I would smile if she smiled at me

Answer 3

Asker

Why would you want to be around them?

Answer 4

SeanshterMonster

Because they make me happy. Just hearing their voice and them talking about things they love lights up their eyes

Answer 5

Asker

What if she talks to you when you're around her?

Answer 6

SeanshterMonster

I would like that.

Answer 7

Asker

Is she smiles at you?

Answer 8

SeanshterMonster

I would smile if she smiled at me

Answer 9

Jwags

Xper 6

I have had that happen one time although it wasn't exaclty just first sight. We only spoke for a minute or two but I was totally into her from that point on. My head was swimming and couldn't stop thinking about her. I found an excuse to track her down.

Asker

1 mo
How do you track her down, and what actually makes you fall for her?
Jwags

1 mo
She was voluteering at a fundraiser. I knew what company she worked for and I got her info from the event organizer. Not only was she stunning, but had a great smile and laugh. She also came off as intelligent. I had immediate crush!
Jwags

1 mo
thanks for the MHO!

Answer 10

Asker

How do you track her down, and what actually makes you fall for her?

Answer 11

Jwags

She was voluteering at a fundraiser. I knew what company she worked for and I got her info from the event organizer. Not only was she stunning, but had a great smile and laugh. She also came off as intelligent. I had immediate crush!

Answer 12

Jwags

thanks for the MHO!

Answer 13

Madhatter920 | 635 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I'm same as you. I don't think anyone actually falls in love at first sight. How can you love someone you don't know? I think it's lust at first sight. Physical attraction only, because that's all you know.

Asker

1 mo
So if its lust at first sight, how does a guy actually feel?
Madhatter920

1 mo
I imagine the same way you feel when you see a physically attractive guy.
Asker

1 mo
Nah physically attractive guy don't attract me
Show All Show Less
Madhatter920

1 mo
Then they aren't attractive. Attraction is subjective. If you aren't attracted to them, then by definition, they aren't attractive.

Answer 14

Asker

So if its lust at first sight, how does a guy actually feel?

Answer 15

Madhatter920

I imagine the same way you feel when you see a physically attractive guy.

Answer 16

Asker

Nah physically attractive guy don't attract me

Answer 17

Madhatter920

Then they aren't attractive. Attraction is subjective. If you aren't attracted to them, then by definition, they aren't attractive.

Answer 18

OlderAndWiser | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Falling at first sight is falling in lust, not falling in love.

Asker

1 mo
if its lust at first sight, how does a guy actually feel?
OlderAndWiser

1 mo
Excited, aroused, horny, but not like "I finally met The One!"

Answer 19

Asker

if its lust at first sight, how does a guy actually feel?

Answer 20

OlderAndWiser

Excited, aroused, horny, but not like "I finally met The One!"

Answer 21

FruitAndBlueEyes | 97 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Oh, it’s like time stands still and nothing else matters once you catch a glimpse of the one your heart desires. Your heart beats fast, breathing becomes shallow, palms get sweaty, you can’t blink and you can’t force yourself to move.

Answer 22

wolfunknown

Xper 5

I don't think I have ever fallen for anyone at first sight. I have had "crush" on first sight not "love"

Answer 23

Ripper_E | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

That doesn't happen. You could develop a crush on sight, but a crush means nothing. People get crushed on TV characters. Love does not happen that way.

Answer 24

GreenGold1992 | 2.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

it's like time freezes and the rest of the world stops

Answer 25

ItsTheNephilim | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Can't relate.

Answer 26

KingChris08

Xper 4

I feel nervous

Asker

1 mo
Why nervous?
KingChris08

1 mo
The last time that I actually fell for a girl at first sight was at my job. It was my first day, I was the new guy, I’m not the most confident guy in the world, I was a volunteer at the time so I didn’t know what was going to happen if I just made it obvious, I did find out what her name was thanks to an old supervisor. I was stuck
Asker

1 mo
What made you fall for her?
Show All Show Less
KingChris08

1 mo
Her personality
Asker

1 mo
Have you talked to her & do you still have feelings for her? ¹
KingChris08

1 mo
I did talk to her about the day on Snapchat. I still have feelings for her but I guess it was never meant to be. She quit and moved to Arizona to go to school. Before she quit she was working at the front desk and I applied for that position twice but never got it. So when she quit that job position was open to anybody. If I applied and got the position I would’ve replaced her. I just couldn’t do it
Asker

1 mo
When did u last see her?
KingChris08

1 mo
December 2019 for like 3 weeks cause she came back
Asker

1 mo
It's been so long since u met her... But you still do keep those feelings?
KingChris08

1 mo
I first met her in 2018 like in March. I worked with her from the day I met her all the way to August 08, 2019. I no longer have feelings for her like I used to
Asker

1 mo
What makes the feelings fade away?
KingChris08

1 mo
One of the main reasons why is because I will never be able to see her again. I might or I might not I’ll never know. I didn’t expect her to come back when she quit at all but she did. It’s kinda complicated if I still have feelings for a girl that I might not ever see again tbh
Asker

1 mo
Do you have feelings for any other girls currently?
KingChris08

1 mo
Nope I don’t have feelings for any other girls. I’m a guy that doesn’t like every single girl that I see cause it’s not my thing. Yeah I’ve had feelings for other girls way before I met this girl. I’ve never had feelings for any of them like I had feelings for this girl.

Answer 27

Asker

Why nervous?

Answer 28

KingChris08

The last time that I actually fell for a girl at first sight was at my job. It was my first day, I was the new guy, I’m not the most confident guy in the world, I was a volunteer at the time so I didn’t know what was going to happen if I just made it obvious, I did find out what her name was thanks to an old supervisor. I was stuck

Answer 29

Asker

What made you fall for her?

Answer 30

KingChris08

Her personality

Answer 31

Asker

Have you talked to her & do you still have feelings for her? ¹

Answer 32

KingChris08

I did talk to her about the day on Snapchat. I still have feelings for her but I guess it was never meant to be. She quit and moved to Arizona to go to school. Before she quit she was working at the front desk and I applied for that position twice but never got it. So when she quit that job position was open to anybody. If I applied and got the position I would’ve replaced her. I just couldn’t do it

Answer 33

Asker

When did u last see her?

Answer 34

KingChris08

December 2019 for like 3 weeks cause she came back

Answer 35

Asker

It's been so long since u met her... But you still do keep those feelings?

Answer 36

KingChris08

I first met her in 2018 like in March. I worked with her from the day I met her all the way to August 08, 2019. I no longer have feelings for her like I used to

Answer 37

Asker

What makes the feelings fade away?

Answer 38

KingChris08

One of the main reasons why is because I will never be able to see her again. I might or I might not I’ll never know. I didn’t expect her to come back when she quit at all but she did. It’s kinda complicated if I still have feelings for a girl that I might not ever see again tbh

Answer 39

Asker

Do you have feelings for any other girls currently?

Answer 40

KingChris08

Nope I don’t have feelings for any other girls. I’m a guy that doesn’t like every single girl that I see cause it’s not my thing. Yeah I’ve had feelings for other girls way before I met this girl. I’ve never had feelings for any of them like I had feelings for this girl.

Guys, how does it feel when you fall for a girl at first sight?

AI Bot Choice

Most Helpful Guys

What Girls & Guys Said

Related myTakes