especially 4 man i think it is good to have a strong back and a firm hand. that is more metaphorical than physical but physical also helps. u be someone people can count on if they actually need it but not someone too eager and nosy to be of service
Honestly, I've never seen people help each other out, but I've seen people being nosy. I should've added more details to the question, I meant nice meaning in a less agressive stance of a man than normal men.
if the stance is right then i dont think there is such a thing as 2 much unless u are measuring it as a cost 2 u. the problem 2 me is that sumtimes if it is too eager, it looks weak and subservient like an asskisser. and even if the guy isn't actually an ass kisser and has the best intentions, people can't read his mind. they see what looks like an ass kisser and they assume ass kisser. and even if people give the benefit of the doubt, the one who seems to go out of his way too often to be kind starts to come off like it is his job or something. it doesn't look like he values himself enuff if he is so concerned with being nice to other people that he doesn't seem to value himself enuff. someone who acts like a servant usually gets treated like one in the end. but a good person can be plenty kind in a strong way. but there is usually some healthy degree of reluctance. healthy like someone who values himself and his own time at least as much as others
Yeah, you're right
Yeah, that's cool. But what about the age group. I don't think teenage girls want a nice guy, do they?
Of course they do. I'm not a teenager but I've observed enough when I was an awkward teenage boy.
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Dude, I just lost my love and she wouldn't say why except that she doesn't love me. How's that supposed to make me feel?
Like, your boyfriend being too nice to you, or maybe your guy bestie.
boyfriend can never be to nice. Guy friend it would get annoying and I’d back off completely from being friends