We have been hanging out for a few months now almost once a week for 6 to 7 hours... when should the next move be made?

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I've been waiting for him to make a move since he's more confident in initiating the "touching" with me. So I figured he'd be more confident in making the first move. how much longer can these hang outs last before he gives up or I'm not longer to ask him out? is there a timeline to something like this? by the way we are both friends in school (that's how we met and became friends)

FYI neither of us have ever dated lol

Answer 1

SouthernSweet

Xper 5

Why not push your own boundaries and maybe try initiating the touching. If you're wanting more than just touching and he's never been with anyone, you may have to push both of your boundaries.

Answer 2

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Is there something stopping you from making a move? You probably haven't shown enough interest towards him.

Answer 3

Bad_Man55 | 804 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

So was there a first move already?

Asker

1 mo
I mean is hanging out the first move? other than that, nope lol
Bad_Man55

1 mo
Lol I guess I think of making a move as getting physical. You said he was getting more comfortable so I thought he may already have
Asker

1 mo
I mean he put his arm around me during a movie for 5 minutes but then moved it back (so I don't know if he meant to do that or what). this was weeks ago. then we had a fall out. then we're hanging out again lol
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Bad_Man55

1 mo
Sounds like he may be super nervous and has no idea how to act.. I mean he knows you like him right?
Asker

1 mo
no idea. I would think he would know if i'm always initiating texts, initiating hang outs, accepting his touches when he does touch me (not moving away), hanging out when he asks me, isn't that enough for him to get the hint that I like him?
Bad_Man55

1 mo
Yes definitely it should be.. if he is as clueless and shy as it sounds like he may be waiting for you to make the move sadly

Answer 4

Asker

I mean is hanging out the first move? other than that, nope lol

Answer 5

Bad_Man55

Lol I guess I think of making a move as getting physical. You said he was getting more comfortable so I thought he may already have

Answer 6

Asker

I mean he put his arm around me during a movie for 5 minutes but then moved it back (so I don't know if he meant to do that or what). this was weeks ago. then we had a fall out. then we're hanging out again lol

Answer 7

Bad_Man55

Sounds like he may be super nervous and has no idea how to act.. I mean he knows you like him right?

Answer 8

Asker

no idea. I would think he would know if i'm always initiating texts, initiating hang outs, accepting his touches when he does touch me (not moving away), hanging out when he asks me, isn't that enough for him to get the hint that I like him?

Answer 9

Bad_Man55

Yes definitely it should be.. if he is as clueless and shy as it sounds like he may be waiting for you to make the move sadly

Answer 10

Vulvalicker

Xper 5

Why is it up to him?

We have been hanging out for a few months now almost once a week for 6 to 7 hours... when should the next move be made?

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