Why is it always men in their 30s or 40s that are complete dicks on here?

[btbc92]

What I have learned over the years is this with people. It is less to do with age and more to do with mentality. People with that type of mentality and thoughtless of their gender, Age, religion, Faith, nationality, Etc, technically going to do the same thing. I have seen and met plenty of rude women from the lowest of the minimum age limit for the site to those even as old as 60. Rude people everywhere and then they want to say how you're rude.

I'm more direct as a person but I try not to be rude people. However even if you apologize, some people just don't like what you got to say and they would just be nasty to you regardless. Sometimes some people don't change. And all you can do for people like that, is don't engage with them or just block them. That's all. Had one earlier that was very disgusting and nasty and was picking fights with everybody. But ironically that person was anonymous. Just be careful who you interact with.

[jennifer_bloom]

One possibility is they are angry they have failed to find a good partner after twenty years of looking for her - another is they started out kind but became corrupted by bad woman when they choose beauty or charm or intelligence over character and ended up in abusive situations, another is they spent so much time paying girls for sex either through prostitutes or through wine and dine negotiations they no longer think woman are worth it - another possibility is they never had good personalities in the first place which is why they are single at their age

[Jjpayne]

I'm sorry to hear that... I think why they are sore could be partly the power of choice that women have over men. You flick through a dating app, you pick the guy with muscles and a great career. You see an overweight guy that is struggling to find work and flick until you find another guy with muscles.

Speed dating could actually be a much better way to find a guy vs an app simply because you talk to them and get to know them before making a judgement on them.

In a society of many lonely people... It's tough to stay positive sometimes.

Aside from that.. Life can just make you bitter too... As you get older you start to lose your patience and thoughtfulness and just decide life is too short and just speaking your mind.

I think both might play roles with that.

But I do think that opinions these days are a lot more stronger and passionate than they used to be

[JayParris]

I haven't seen any of these arguments, but just knowing human behavior, I'd give it a 50/50 shot of them either really being a dick or you just not liking the fact that they don't cower to your opinion like a puppy trying to get a treat.

Because really, most of the time people get called assholes or dicks or bitches or whatever, all that's really being said is "that person doesn't do or say what I want them to".

But this is the internet, so that in itself increases the possibility of them actually acting like a dick. So 50/50

[GingerGuy]

I think it might be a coincidence. I think a lot of people in general have got that way on here for some reason. I seem to get a lot of younger bitter people as well. And uncalled for things people just jump all over you. It's like "I was only nicely giving my opinion" lol, on a question YOU asked I might add. If you didn't want to hear it, don't ask the question.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Really, cuz my experience it's more men mid twenties- mid thirties... A few over 40, but... But whatever age group, too old to be acting so dang stupid... But you kinda answered your question, bitterness... Far easier to blame women for their failures than themselves... And hey bitter guys, you can downvote all you want... I promise not to cry 😂😂https://www.youtube.com/embed/Hr4EcIrPcqs

[BeMuse]

Well AOC if you are constantly arguing, they are bound to give you shit in return. Men tend to be individualist and are often accused of being insensitive because we are more straight forward. We don't owe you anything just because you have a vagina. Get some class and act like a lady and people will treat you better.

[blank_expression]

Well I didn’t realize this was a be nice to haters site. When I first started in on here, there were the nastiest most hateful group of feminists on here and all they did was attack so the environment became very combative on here for a while. It seemed to settle down a bit but the default mode is still don’t let your guard down. Usually, if someone begins to act human I will then relate to them. However, I never expect nice on here and I wouldn’t either if I were you.

[ohshee]

Well if They are a dick on here there a dick everywhere I know a couple of guys like this it doesn't matter what's going on where we are if these a girl there he being a dick I think there must hate there mom for whatever reasons but yah I can't even hang with the guy any more and I do read a lot of post or answers from guys that what TheY said was just rude

[DannyUk2017]

Wowowoowww... easy tiger!
Don't put us in the same pot please!.
And that thing might be, because we in this range, we get to see LIFE DIFFERENT, we opened our eyes.
Untill now 15-25 we were considered, YOUNG AND NAIVE, AND DICKS MAYBE, COUSE WE DON'T KNOW HOW "TO LOVE A GIRL/WOMAN", So yeah maybe that could be one reason, now could be many more but, this one comes in my mind right now!

[Makeushiver]

Well as a guy I apologize individually and collectively for any sins for which our gender has committed. Many times people who spend a huge amount of time on here are probably deficient in other areas. If a guy gets tossed by a woman there is often real rage that is normally contained. If you get guys together and the subject comes up than eventually sex will be the topic. Nobody I hang with would use any really derogatory words and I would hope that any guy out of high school wouldn't use denigrating terms and i don't think I have but if you see anything derogatory come out of my mouth, feel free to comment to me and I will think about it. The subject of sex is pretty common here and I know I've referred to anatomical pieces of a woman's anatomy in terms that are street and not clinical but I don't apologize for that but I'd hate to think I've offended.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

Are you doing something to offend them. Men in their 30s grow wiser to bs and will talk back. Men in their 20s won't simply because they are niave. You need to look at your own behaviour and question what you're doing.

[nerdybutlazy]

Honestly it's probably just because they're online a few of them are nicer but not all of them it's just a lot of trying to prove their smarter and winning internet arguments. But again some of them are nice

[Reaperbot666]

would imagine many are that way because either they or other men they know. have been wronged by one or more women in the past to some degree. so they have a more harsh outlook to women who seem similar.

[MlJOPAPI]

Maybe it is just a difference of opinion, Remember guys our age are more traditional. Generation X and older Millennials are 100% testosterone. The younger generations of guys have been more feminized so if your political views are liberal that might be why guys are fighting with you. I am not saying you are liberal but if you are guys your age would be more cool with you.

[AndrewMG]

I mean I've turned 30 now, but I'm pretty certain I'm as much of a dick as I was when I was younger, The difference is that I'm more self aware of my dickness now, so I'm still aware of my Dick like ability but realise that and concentrate on trying to be a decent guy! So did turning 30 make me a dick? No I think I still have the same principles I have now then what I had 5 years ago. P. S. I'm not 100% I am a dick! lol

[belle_kai]

Maybe because a 30 something or 40 something man should be in a long term relationship or married with kids and wouldn't be on here. That's why they're on here because they're lonely and are bitter

[pizzalovershouse]

Im never bitter toward you just try to comment an try to nake a few new friends here so if you ever want to say hi or talk message me on my post or in private im here for people i fallow or they fallow me

[Ripper_E]

People online are brave because they are online.
If anything, I'm less aggressive online than I am in person.

[MzAsh]

I get the same thing. They’re mad they haven’t found that wifey dumb enough to put up with their bullshit.

[Liam_Hayden]

In that age range I'd guess they've lost everything in a divorce and have a hard time finding women who will endure them in their damaged state.

[DavidFox]

I wonder if some of them do it on purpose. Like they try to get a rise out of you because they think all girls like drama.

[douride2]

Not necessarily true. Complete dicks come in all age groups in the real world & even here on GAG.

[Paulychicago10]

Oh my gosh! I'm gonna go off on you for this comment. Fuck I dont care. You do you and believe in your opinion and not worry what others say.