Why he asked "To tell me you love me?"?

[Citizenkirk]

Why? Did he put you on the spot? Derail you from asking him your question? Did he upset you for implying that you don't love him? A little 😕 confusing and extremely 😞 frustrating when someone comes out of left field questioning the intent of your question, isn't t it? "Oh my, another question,"you say. "Who does this guy think he is?" You are probably asking yourself. He is the guy that just gave you a definitive answer in the form of a question. And that is what your boyfriend did last you spoke too him. Do you love him? Upon reflection, if the answer is yes, than tell him. What's the harm? What does it cost you? Face? Hand, as depicted in that stupid Sienfeld episode where George tries too obtain superior hand and loses the relationship altogether. If this relationship is a chess match between you two, end it! Immediately. This guy just reached out too you, showing a vulnerability men don't like too show, unless they are serious about committing too you unconditionally.

[Squirts93]

he's being passive aggreessive because he took your denial personally. He feels like you wasted his time and now he's hinting you either need to submit and apologize and explain why you said no the first time. "I wasn't ready." Is too vague, makes it look like you had underlying intent. Did you not want kids? Did you not want sex? Did you not want to share a burden? You need to figure out what you want, otherwise you'll never get back what you lost.

[dandiecandie]

You love this guy a lot but you guys seem to be having problems together. Like you said you have history but it seems like he is running away and you're chasing him and he doesn't want to be chased. I think its best if you let him be and even though It might be hurtful for you, you have to realise the following:

1) you can't force a person to do what you want them to do.
2) you can't have a relationship if you're the only one invested in it.
3) you need time to reflect as to what really attracts you to him. Try answering questions like what makes you keep running back to him?
4) Google info on the break up stages.

[meetkitty123]

Relax hun it honestly sounds to me like he was only flirting with you and goofing. He may have a humorous personality. He enjoys hearing you say you love him and he was being silly in attempt to get you to say it again. Its a mix of being flirty cute and funny. If his cute goofy side nags you over the coming days gently tell him to tone it down.

[VanJulian]

What do you mean by " I love you". Is this the man you see yourself with in 10 years? Is this the man you see yourself having children with? Is this the man who was there for you when you were broken? Is this the man who helped you to overcome your demons? Is this the man who you can rely on? A man who calls you his infront of his family who includes you in his life and makes you a priority? If it's a no for more than 50 % of my questions all it is for you and him - infatuation and it Will be over soon. Drop the overused " I love you" and maybe say " I appreciate you" " I value your time" " I enjoy your company". It's much more of a reality

[Browneye57]

If you love him make sure you tell him. Otherwise he just thinks you're not really invested, and likely to wander off.
If you don't, then either you haven't known him long enough, or he's just not the right one. If the latter, cut him loose so he can find someone who does, and you can find one you can.

[Xavier16]

Probably some self assurance because maybe you haven't told him you love him? Or you haven't told him lately?

[hahahmm]

He wants to know if you’re sleeping around.


Is your body count ticking upwards like the odometer in a hard driven car on a cross country race?


He wants to know if he kisses you, is he tasting other dude (s) slime.

[Berethor]

What you wanted to tell him? to tell him that you pregnant and he is the father? :)

[Hannah_le]

Maybe as a joke there isn’t enough context so I think he was joking by far I have friends who would joke the same back then lmao unless he gives hints he likes u could be :3

[JosyJosy]

I checked your last question. My answer still stands

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Look my answers would be the same as they were when you were asking these questions under a different account...

[OlderAndWiser]

He is telling you that he doesn't need to hear you repeat the same message to him.

[LemiaOfTheCodes]

He could be questioning your loyality to him. Which is a red flag

[havingfun101]

Say you love me = approve of me = weak. You're both like that, which is why you were together. Stop being weak?

[Niya2006]

well it sounds like he is into you and wanted to see if you felt the same

[Madmegalomaniac]

He either likes you, or he was kidding around. Or he made it sound like he was kidding around because he likes you and wanted to see how you react.

[SavageGirl101]

Wait I’m sorry I’m confused? So the guys likes u and u don’t like him? Im so lost sorry

[Gedaria]

He has a lot of affection for you, he is hoping it's mutual...

[Anonymous]

cos giys wanna be loved too surprisingly

he's probably testing you to see if he should give up on you or stay

[flashgrandad]

He sounds clingy to me.
Unsure if you are his true llve, he sounds very insecure.

[Jamie05rhs]

What did you tell him in a message the day before?

[Hangry22]

Because you already told it many times

[Mark987]

How long have you been with him?