So I’ve been talking to this guy for over a month. We went on an amazing first date and then we went away for work for 3 weeks. Over that time we didn’t talk a lot and I felt like I was constantly initiating the conversation. When he got back, we went on a second date that weekend. I thought it went really well but he only kissed me once (less than first date). His brother’s birthday was this weekend so I knew he was busy but he led me to believe he would be free on Sunday. I never heard from him on Sunday and still haven’t. On Saturday, the conversation died and I “left him on read.” He posted on his snapchat last night that he was watching the movie we had talked about watching together on multiple occasions. I’m not sure I should just leave it as he’s not interested or reach out one more time. I’m tired of feeling like I’m putting all the effort in, should I take this as a sign? Or guys, would you not text a girl who didn’t reply? Deep down I think I know the truth but I’d like some other takes on things 😂
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1 y
Update for everyone: thanks for all of your input! I asked him what’s going on and he said he’s got a lot going on with work and has been adjusting to his new work schedule (second shift). He asked to hang out next week and apologized for being off the radar. I’m not investing any emotions into this and we’ll see if he is true to his word.
It’s difficult to say for sure. He may be a laid back guy that wants to take it slow. He could also be busy with work or other things. He might even be dating someone else. I think he likes you or he wouldn’t have gone on the second date and kissed you. I would give him at least one more attempt and see what he does.
I’m not cutting him off for sure, but I feel like I’m being too much by texting him first all the time. I’ll give him some more time to come around but I don’t want to annoy him either
Hannah_le | 78 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 y
Maybe try calling a bit more? He seems rlly laid back I kinda felt that cuz it seems similar with how my boyfriend acts but except now he tries and put his all as much as I do. Maybe try talking to him a little like try one more time or calling and ask what’s up n if he explains and doesn’t mind talking then he’s good but if he seems like he’s rlly avoiding you then it’s a little sus. He can be busy tho but would be weird like he has free time n doesn’t spend it with you lol
When people are interested they will show it. Also they will make plans with the person they are interested in. They won't be playing games such as posting a story which includes them watching a movie which you were talking about watching together. Those are silly games.
I don't think he is into you, though I do not understand why. You seem vibrant, full of life. I think spending time just talking with you would be fun in and of itself. You seem like you would make a lot of jokes, that should come off as attractive to most men.
wankiam | 2.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Master
1 y
all relationships take a certain ammount of work but if its one sided and you are the only one making the effort then im not sure its even worth trying to reach out one last time... probably better to just move on
We live 2 hours apart so we can’t see each other every day. I asked him to hang out this weekend and he didn’t so that doesn’t sound like someone who wants to hang out that much. Considering he was stated away for 3 weeks... what else could we do.
I want to date in person too, I don’t date on the phone.
RHK36 | 598 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 y
Seems like he's disinterested. You could flat out just ask him what's up. All I know is when I'm into someone I'm never too busy and distance of 2 hrs isn't an issue.
He always responds, I just don’t want to disrespect myself by constantly initiating it if he’s just being polite by responding. I want a guy to put in some effort
MountAverage | 351 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Wow, okay I wasn’t saying “leave him” as we aren’t even together. Also you don’t know me. This app is for dating advice and if you’re going to be rude I suggest you take it elsewhere.
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