Is it a good or bad sign of a guy invited you to play online video games with him and his buddies?

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I was telling him how I miss playing games. And how I hated PlayStation. He then tells me about a game he plays with a group of friend and how fun it was. I added it and he begged me to go play with him and his buddies. I did and it was fun.

I feel like this was very friendzone- ish for me. What do you think?

Bad- you just got friendzoned

Good- He was thoughtful to add you to his group

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Answer 1

KingDio | 498 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Think nothing like that into it... just invited you to play some games as that sort of thing is universal hell I'd invite you to play with me 🤣🤣 as it's just simply to play with someone

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Asker

1 y
Lol ok. I guess because I’m crushing on him I felt friendzoned

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KingDio

1 y
Naa that's not a friend zone... but my advise is to get him to play with you 1 on 1 and get your flirt game on... see if he takes the bait. Only time if he is indeed friendzoning you is if keeps pushing friends onto you

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Asker

1 y
Well this game is only multi player lol.
But good idea. Thank you

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KingDio

1 y
No problem, any time

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Asker

1 y
Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

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KingDio

1 y
Just got more intresting

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Asker

Lol ok. I guess because I’m crushing on him I felt friendzoned

Answer 3

KingDio

Naa that's not a friend zone... but my advise is to get him to play with you 1 on 1 and get your flirt game on... see if he takes the bait. Only time if he is indeed friendzoning you is if keeps pushing friends onto you

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Asker

Well this game is only multi player lol.
But good idea. Thank you

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KingDio

No problem, any time

Answer 6

Asker

Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

Guys, can you fall for a married woman? ↗

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KingDio

Just got more intresting

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Browneye57 | 3.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Yup. Just one of the guys. Vid-game dweebs are not dragon slayers honey. Well, at least not in real life.

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Here is more on him if you can help?
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Asker

Here is more on him if you can help?
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Agape93 | 778 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Yeah it’s a good thing. When I was dating my best friend, he invited me to play games with him and his friends all the time

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Asker

1 y
Really? I guess because I’m crushing on him I felt friendzoned by this.

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Agape93

1 y
Understandable. I see it this way: he knows you don’t like PlayStation, so he’s taking that into consideration and bringing you around his friends, his inner circle, so you can all have fun together.

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Asker

1 y
Yea. Good point. I guess I felt he would play a game just us two. Lol.

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Agape93

1 y
Ask him to :) I’m sure he’d be happy to do so. Hell mine played Minecraft with me even though he hates it lol guys are usually sweet like that :)

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Asker

1 y
Thanks girl

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Agape93

1 y
Anytime :) have fun

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Asker

1 y
Yeah... we do. It's weird lol

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Agape93

1 y
You do what?

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Asker

1 y
Sorry----that first sentence was an error.
:)

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Answer 11

Asker

Really? I guess because I’m crushing on him I felt friendzoned by this.

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Agape93

Understandable. I see it this way: he knows you don’t like PlayStation, so he’s taking that into consideration and bringing you around his friends, his inner circle, so you can all have fun together.

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Asker

Yea. Good point. I guess I felt he would play a game just us two. Lol.

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Agape93

Ask him to :) I’m sure he’d be happy to do so. Hell mine played Minecraft with me even though he hates it lol guys are usually sweet like that :)

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Asker

Thanks girl

Answer 16

Agape93

Anytime :) have fun

Answer 17

Asker

Yeah... we do. It's weird lol

Here is more on him if you can help?
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Agape93

You do what?

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Asker

Sorry----that first sentence was an error.
:)

Answer 20

Tslav_

Xper 4

That fact you think like this indicates that women do friendzone men, however guys don’t friendzone women, he’s trying to build commonality with you. Bonding since you two clearly like games

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1 y
Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

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Asker

Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

Guys, can you fall for a married woman? ↗

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SomeGuyCalledTom | 538 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Since when did "friendzoned" mean "being invited to share a mutual pastime?"

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Well because it’s an online game for a group. Lol. I was told that put me in friendzone because he might see me as one of the guys...

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Answer 23

Asker

Well because it’s an online game for a group. Lol. I was told that put me in friendzone because he might see me as one of the guys...

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ColHathi | 348 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't think that necessarily means that he's friendzoning you. That's silly.

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Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

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ColHathi

1 y
Hmm, well first off, I wouldn't call it friendzoning if you're married, since you'd have no interest in being more than friends.
I dunno. He sounds incredibly fond of you either way. But if he keeps talking to you about girls he's interested in, and wanting advice, maybe he's not romantically interested?

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Asker

1 y
Yeah it’s very confusing. Of course he wants to date and find someone. But he makes sure to tell me everything and gets my feedback. If I’m not a fan of a girl (only happened once) he won’t go for her lol. I just worry about the touching and wanting to see me. But maybe it means nothing.

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ColHathi

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Maybe he comes from a touchy/feely family? :p Or maybe he sees you like an older sister, and that's why he's so comfortable? Honestly, that part confused me too. I'd be wondering about all the touching too.

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Asker

1 y
He’s not a touchy family at all lol
I know he used to have feels for me. But I assumed that faded and he got mature. But yeh I don't know. Or maybe he realized it never going to happen but likes me so much that he maintained the friendship

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ColHathi

1 y
Either way it's bizarre ^^ But at least it sounds like you've got a great friendship going. I'm jealous.

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Asker

1 y
Lol. I guess. I do love him so much. But it’s weird to think he might have romantic feels. Then sometimes I feel like it’s just a bro/sad relationship. Lol

What you jealous for!

I will say I’m sad for when he dies get a girl. I’ll be out of the picture at that point

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ColHathi

1 y
Surely not ^^ And I'm jealous because I don't have any kind of relationship like that. I knew a girl once that seemed into a friendship like that, but the insecure fool that I am, I let her get away. Wouldn't even know how to find her now.

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Asker

1 y
Wow. I didn’t know guys valued female friendship like that. Not sure if he’s an emotional guy to want this sort of thing. And he has his buddies who have girlfriends he is kinda close with. But I do know I know more about him than anyone else. But it’s because he trust me.

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ColHathi

1 y
Well honestly I just want someone I can be close like that with, and relax with. Cuddling or tumbling would be a definite bonus. If that comes in the form of a romantic relationship or a plain friendship doesn't matter to me. I have neither, so I'll take anything I can get :p and I think most guys want someone they can be close with.

Have you ever talked to him about that? How he's able and wanting to be so close to you?

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Asker

1 y
No. We haven’t. I did tell him we’re meant to be in each other lives. And he agreed. And the o my thing he’s ever said to me was the “you know the most about me because I tell you more than anyone”. But he’s not the kind of guy to be open on feels lol.
He’s told me a “luvs” me a few times over the years.

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ColHathi

1 y
Haha. That's sweet.

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Answer 25

Asker

Here is more on their situation- if you wanna help? Lol

Guys, can you fall for a married woman? ↗

Answer 26

ColHathi

Hmm, well first off, I wouldn't call it friendzoning if you're married, since you'd have no interest in being more than friends.
I dunno. He sounds incredibly fond of you either way. But if he keeps talking to you about girls he's interested in, and wanting advice, maybe he's not romantically interested?

Answer 27

Asker

Yeah it’s very confusing. Of course he wants to date and find someone. But he makes sure to tell me everything and gets my feedback. If I’m not a fan of a girl (only happened once) he won’t go for her lol. I just worry about the touching and wanting to see me. But maybe it means nothing.

Answer 28

ColHathi

Maybe he comes from a touchy/feely family? :p Or maybe he sees you like an older sister, and that's why he's so comfortable? Honestly, that part confused me too. I'd be wondering about all the touching too.

Answer 29

Asker

He’s not a touchy family at all lol
I know he used to have feels for me. But I assumed that faded and he got mature. But yeh I don't know. Or maybe he realized it never going to happen but likes me so much that he maintained the friendship

Answer 30

ColHathi

Either way it's bizarre ^^ But at least it sounds like you've got a great friendship going. I'm jealous.

Answer 31

Asker

Lol. I guess. I do love him so much. But it’s weird to think he might have romantic feels. Then sometimes I feel like it’s just a bro/sad relationship. Lol

What you jealous for!

I will say I’m sad for when he dies get a girl. I’ll be out of the picture at that point

Answer 32

ColHathi

Surely not ^^ And I'm jealous because I don't have any kind of relationship like that. I knew a girl once that seemed into a friendship like that, but the insecure fool that I am, I let her get away. Wouldn't even know how to find her now.

Answer 33

Asker

Wow. I didn’t know guys valued female friendship like that. Not sure if he’s an emotional guy to want this sort of thing. And he has his buddies who have girlfriends he is kinda close with. But I do know I know more about him than anyone else. But it’s because he trust me.

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ColHathi

Well honestly I just want someone I can be close like that with, and relax with. Cuddling or tumbling would be a definite bonus. If that comes in the form of a romantic relationship or a plain friendship doesn't matter to me. I have neither, so I'll take anything I can get :p and I think most guys want someone they can be close with.

Have you ever talked to him about that? How he's able and wanting to be so close to you?

Answer 35

Asker

No. We haven’t. I did tell him we’re meant to be in each other lives. And he agreed. And the o my thing he’s ever said to me was the “you know the most about me because I tell you more than anyone”. But he’s not the kind of guy to be open on feels lol.
He’s told me a “luvs” me a few times over the years.

Answer 36

ColHathi

Haha. That's sweet.

Answer 37

DavidFox

Yoda

Any reason why you asked the same question again?

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Asker

1 y
Had to add more into and decided on a poll 😊 also only got 2 answers last time.

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DavidFox

1 y
How old is he?

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Asker

1 y
He is 22

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DavidFox

1 y
Seems like an age gap, right?

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Asker

1 y
Lol yes. Def a big age gap between us

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DavidFox

1 y
If I was interested in someone over 30, I’m not going to invite her to play video games with my buddies. I want her to spend time with me one on one.

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Asker

1 y
We already do that lol
I see him almost every week

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DavidFox

1 y
If you are dating and making out, then it’s all good

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Asker

Had to add more into and decided on a poll 😊 also only got 2 answers last time.

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DavidFox

How old is he?

Answer 40

Asker

He is 22

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DavidFox

Seems like an age gap, right?

Answer 42

Asker

Lol yes. Def a big age gap between us

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DavidFox

If I was interested in someone over 30, I’m not going to invite her to play video games with my buddies. I want her to spend time with me one on one.

Answer 44

Asker

We already do that lol
I see him almost every week

Answer 45

DavidFox

If you are dating and making out, then it’s all good

Answer 46

Snakeyes7 | 610 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

I can never think of why that would be a bad sign.

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1 y
Well a few of my friends said it’s friendzoned stuff. Like he sees me as one of the guys

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Snakeyes7

1 y
I can kinda see that but to me that sounds like he is convinced that the two of you have excellent chemistry

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Asker

1 y
Yeah... we do. It's weird lol

Here is more on him if you can help?
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Asker

Well a few of my friends said it’s friendzoned stuff. Like he sees me as one of the guys

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Snakeyes7

I can kinda see that but to me that sounds like he is convinced that the two of you have excellent chemistry

Answer 49

Asker

Yeah... we do. It's weird lol

Here is more on him if you can help?
Guys, can you fall for a married woman? ↗

Answer 50

8lutty

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become e-girl for his buddy huh lol

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Asker

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Huh? For his buddy. I’m confused

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Answer 51

Asker

Huh? For his buddy. I’m confused

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