A Challenge or really something?

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so i have been talking to this guy since last 6 months he happened to be my quiz partner we have same music taste and shared tons of tracks and albums during this lockdown , we kinda became good friends. we have literally talked for hours daily but since last month he had suddenly started flirting with me and i don't know what changed does he really likes me or considers me a challenge (as i have never been in a relation he knows this ) or he is really into me

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hellionthesagereborn | 743 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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He is more then likely into you. I highly doubt its because your a "challenge", if that was the case why did he start after half a year instead of right at the begining? I'm guessing he got to know you and now likes you and is trying to see if you like him back (hence flirting). I mean six months of talking to him and talking for hours, thats a very good sign he is interested in you (if he was just after sex he would have given up by now and would have probably started with flirting).

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dark_line_

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Thanks for the suggestion
hellionthesagereborn

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Your welcome.

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dark_line_

Thanks for the suggestion

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hellionthesagereborn

Your welcome.

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TheLawAroundHere

Xper 6

Honey, id love to say that this young man has only the best of intentions towards you. But... being a former young man; myself; i can say that young men tend to walk on one side of the street, lets say. But i could be wrong. It happened once before... in 1983. Haha! Just be careful, kiddo.

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dark_line_

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Would you kindly elaborate what you mean by young men tend to walk on side of streets :)
TheLawAroundHere

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Sure. Sorry.

Most guys, especially young guys, have a very narrow world view. 1. What am i gonna eat? 2. What am i gonna wear? 3. Wheres my phone? Thats about it. So id say that its a safe bet that this guy, like MOST guys, got the idea of you 2 having sex... in some fashion.

And guys think they are slick or cool about it. But anyone thats paying attention can tell that he's picturing you with either your feet behind your head, or his balls on your chin. That is crude. I apologize. But im trying to spare you any misunderstandings due to hyperbole.
dark_line_

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Thanks for elaborating , i'll keep that in mind
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TheLawAroundHere

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My pleasure. I do hope this boy acts like a gentleman, and treats you with all the respect you deserve.

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dark_line_

Would you kindly elaborate what you mean by young men tend to walk on side of streets :)

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TheLawAroundHere

Sure. Sorry.

Most guys, especially young guys, have a very narrow world view. 1. What am i gonna eat? 2. What am i gonna wear? 3. Wheres my phone? Thats about it. So id say that its a safe bet that this guy, like MOST guys, got the idea of you 2 having sex... in some fashion.

And guys think they are slick or cool about it. But anyone thats paying attention can tell that he's picturing you with either your feet behind your head, or his balls on your chin. That is crude. I apologize. But im trying to spare you any misunderstandings due to hyperbole.

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dark_line_

Thanks for elaborating , i'll keep that in mind

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TheLawAroundHere

My pleasure. I do hope this boy acts like a gentleman, and treats you with all the respect you deserve.

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Bidensucks2020 | 50 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

He probably thinks you are alike enough for a real relationship

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azbaeu

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y'all have been spending tons of time together practicing the social distance and while y'all are distancing from the rest of society together y'all are physically close to one another and that kind of proximity generally is contagious to the heart

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Avicenna | 6.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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He must be genuinely interested

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Iron_Man | 10.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Time will tell

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