How to know if a guy likes you only for your looks VS he’s actually interested in you?

Question

Are there any signs to look for? Verbal or non verbal

Answer 1

AmeerX | 1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

If he is only interested in you for your body then he will ask you for sex or make jokes relating to that.
If he is genuinely in love he will never ask you for any physical favors and be happy just you being around and talking to him

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hellohruu

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Do you think lust can actually last for over a year?
AmeerX

1 y
Lust can last for years but it can't be love. Love is pure and whenever he sees you he feels better internally.
Lust is more about physical attraction only. There is sudden boost of attraction but then it goes down till he needs your body for satisfaction again
hellohruu

1 y
Ohh alright. Thank you 😊
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AmeerX

1 y
Thanks for MHO. How come you are so beautiful yet you seem trobled about it
hellohruu

1 y
What do you mean I seem troubled about it?
AmeerX

1 y
You honestly feel you have a hard time getting in a relationship. Have you find a handsome guy?
hellohruu

1 y
Ohh I get it now. Yes I do. Guys don’t really approach me like at all, might stare and smirk but that’s all. I don’t dress provocatively
AmeerX

1 y
You seem like an intelligent person. Why not get approached? May be you are too beautiful
hellohruu

1 y
I wish I knew too :D I guess I’m just too shy and guys pick up on that
AmeerX

1 y
I did totally date you if I saw you in person. Well that's just me. I am come out too strong I guess😶

Answer 2

hellohruu

Do you think lust can actually last for over a year?

Answer 3

AmeerX

Lust can last for years but it can't be love. Love is pure and whenever he sees you he feels better internally.
Lust is more about physical attraction only. There is sudden boost of attraction but then it goes down till he needs your body for satisfaction again

Answer 4

hellohruu

Ohh alright. Thank you 😊

Answer 5

AmeerX

Thanks for MHO. How come you are so beautiful yet you seem trobled about it

Answer 6

hellohruu

What do you mean I seem troubled about it?

Answer 7

AmeerX

You honestly feel you have a hard time getting in a relationship. Have you find a handsome guy?

Answer 8

hellohruu

Ohh I get it now. Yes I do. Guys don’t really approach me like at all, might stare and smirk but that’s all. I don’t dress provocatively

Answer 9

AmeerX

You seem like an intelligent person. Why not get approached? May be you are too beautiful

Answer 10

hellohruu

I wish I knew too :D I guess I’m just too shy and guys pick up on that

Answer 11

AmeerX

I did totally date you if I saw you in person. Well that's just me. I am come out too strong I guess😶

Answer 12

RHK36 | 595 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

He'll generally be interested in your thoughts on a lot of things. The effort he puts in to get to know more about you and what you're about. If he's interested in just your looks his effort will show and will be all on the surface.

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Answer 13

Hangry22

Guru

Go out with the worst look you have. No makeup. No dressing up. Let him see you with an over-sized hoodie, sweats and a bun. If he still carries out the convo like usual, he's interested in more than your looks

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hellohruu

1 y
We don’t actually talk lol he just stares at me all the time even when I don’t look my best tbh
Hangry22

1 y
If it's just staring, he may just be into you physically. This is really doubtful

Answer 14

hellohruu

We don’t actually talk lol he just stares at me all the time even when I don’t look my best tbh

Answer 15

Hangry22

If it's just staring, he may just be into you physically. This is really doubtful

Answer 16

Finchie40 | 759 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

If he makes you a priority and likes to know more about you , his focus isn’t just getting in your pants. He actually asks how your day was and likes to talk to you and get to know the actual you instead of his intentions just leading towards sex

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Answer 17

Aiko_E_Lara | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Same as how to know if a girl likes you only for your money VS she’s actually interested in you.

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hellohruu

1 y
How?
Aiko_E_Lara

1 y
I mean you're a girl so i thought you know
hellohruu

1 y
Uhh no?
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Aiko_E_Lara

1 y
Well i'm pretty curious myself but if you ask him i know because i'm a guy then i don't.

Answer 18

hellohruu

How?

Answer 19

Aiko_E_Lara

I mean you're a girl so i thought you know

Answer 20

hellohruu

Uhh no?

Answer 21

Aiko_E_Lara

Well i'm pretty curious myself but if you ask him i know because i'm a guy then i don't.

Answer 22

Tslav_

Xper 4

We’re ugly we can’t say how you pretty people behave or think

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Answer 23

Grubhub | 142 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

If he asks for sex faster than usual. If he asks you about yourself he wants to get to know you

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