I just realized my boyfriend lied to me about something. Is this something to cry about?

[Anonymous]

I asked my boyfriend was he friends with this one girl because I was curious. He said he didn’t know her and made a rude joke about her. I caught him talking to her but I didn’t say anything and pretended like I didn’t care. He just got quiet and walked away from the girl. He does this all the time where he acts like he doesn’t care about any girls but he talks to them when I’m not there. I don’t know if he’s flirting with them or being friendly. Either way he doesn’t have to lie about it.

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[Hangry22]

Not something to cry about but something to be angry and upset about. He may have done it for several reasons. He may have had exes before you that had a problem with him having female friends and so was scared to lose you.
He may have something going on with those girls which may be close to cheating or cheating itself.
He may want to show that since he doesn't have any female friends, you shouldn't have male friends or that he can be trusted.
Anyway don't let it go easily. Let him know you're upset

[abc3643]

He needs to go.
Dump him now.

[m2hard4sum1sbum]

Yes. Can i say something mean but true?

[stuntbrain]

He's allowed to cry