My crush hasn't accepted or declined my friend invite, and I sent it a couple days ago. Do you guys take a long time to respond, or is this my sign?

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We've talked in-person multiple times, and the conversations seem great. He and I banter back and forth, ask questions, and seem like we're generally pretty comfortable around one another. But could just be him being friendly.

I had no way of communicating with him except for in-person (which we do not see each other often), so I figured the friend request could be an opening to something more.

Since he hasn't accepted the request, I think I weirded him out because maybe he knows my feelings.

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MikeTheBartender | 66 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Unfortunately I think he's probably not interested. Only exception would be if he's not big into social network. What are his other actions? Texts or calls frequently? Makes future plans with you?

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The problem is that the environment that we communicate in is a work environment. He comes over to complete projects for my roommate. The only time he and I communicate is when he comes over. I was hoping to take a step further and find another means to connect with him.

I don't get a lot of opportunities with him alone because my roommate is always there, but when I do have alone time, I was going to ask him out or something.

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The problem is that the environment that we communicate in is a work environment. He comes over to complete projects for my roommate. The only time he and I communicate is when he comes over. I was hoping to take a step further and find another means to connect with him.

I don't get a lot of opportunities with him alone because my roommate is always there, but when I do have alone time, I was going to ask him out or something.

My crush hasn't accepted or declined my friend invite, and I sent it a couple days ago. Do you guys take a long time to respond, or is this my sign?

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