Guys, What does this really mean from a guys perspective?

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So a few years ago I got the idea to let my guy know I wanted to do something and would send him dirty texts etc. Usually after he got off of work, sometimes before but they went ignored. I could tell when he read them because I get a notification.

Why would he ignore them? I really put myself out there and felt so embarrassed after sending them because I got no response etc.

So I stopped sending them to him.

Answer 1

GiventoFly01

Xper 6

Did he seem into it before you did it?
My wife sent me a video of a woman who she knew would instantly turn me on. She took a hell of a chance though, because it wasn't someone I should be turned on by, let alone encouraged by my wife. It turned out to be something she had been dying to send me, hoping I'd get turned on.
Well, I did and its definitely opened us up to new conversations that we never dreamed of having. They aren't really things a husband and wife should be so interested in, but I guess we're perfect for each other lol.
For the record, its nothing more than just fantasies. I dont think it will ever go further.

Answer 2

TooDrunk4Sex

Xper 6

do ya just do dat outta da blue without having da regular communication with him? like u dont ask him what he thought about ur pics the next day when u see him in person?

TooDrunk4Sex

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i mean id freak out 2 no matter how sexy those pics are if u dont talk to me da next day or if we didn't build up a convo 2 dat
Asker

24 d
I sent a message not photos and yes I have regular conversation but those messages of dirty texts ALWAYS went ignored
TooDrunk4Sex

24 d
are u kinda shy in person or sumfin? like there's a split personality between in person and online?
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TooDrunk4Sex

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cuz if those two are worlds apart, maybe he dunno what 2 make of the difference between da 2

Answer 3

TooDrunk4Sex

i mean id freak out 2 no matter how sexy those pics are if u dont talk to me da next day or if we didn't build up a convo 2 dat

Answer 4

Asker

I sent a message not photos and yes I have regular conversation but those messages of dirty texts ALWAYS went ignored

Answer 5

TooDrunk4Sex

are u kinda shy in person or sumfin? like there's a split personality between in person and online?

Answer 6

TooDrunk4Sex

cuz if those two are worlds apart, maybe he dunno what 2 make of the difference between da 2

Answer 7

MannMitAntworten | 1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

If he never saw them it could mean just about anything... did you ever again hear from him?

Asker

24 d
We are together. And yes he say them I got a notification when he would read them
MannMitAntworten

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Odd. Did you bring it up to him to see why? If yes, what was his response?

Answer 8

Asker

We are together. And yes he say them I got a notification when he would read them

Answer 9

MannMitAntworten

Odd. Did you bring it up to him to see why? If yes, what was his response?

Answer 10

Wise4myage | 771 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

He's not into sexting.

Asker

22 d
Well he should have communicated that then
Wise4myage

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Yes I agree and I feel bad for you because you probably felt let down. I would have loved It.

Answer 11

Asker

Well he should have communicated that then

Answer 12

Wise4myage

Yes I agree and I feel bad for you because you probably felt let down. I would have loved It.

Answer 13

Anonymous

He's not that interested in you.

Asker

24 d
Explain, we've been married for 13yrs
Opinion Owner

23 d
Really? That is not a good sign then. Has he had his Testosterone levels checked? Or do you think that he is seeing someone else?
Asker

23 d
Honestly not really sure because he has no problem wanting it when HE is in the mood etc but when i am etc he doesn't want to
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Opinion Owner

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How often is he in the mood?
Asker

23 d
5 months of no sex so how often do you think?

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Opinion Owner

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Dang that is worse than I thought. I would get him to a doctor stat to have his T levels checked.
Asker

23 d
He would never agree to that
Opinion Owner

23 d
Why not it is just a doctor's appointment?

Answer 14

Asker

Explain, we've been married for 13yrs

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

Really? That is not a good sign then. Has he had his Testosterone levels checked? Or do you think that he is seeing someone else?

Answer 16

Asker

Honestly not really sure because he has no problem wanting it when HE is in the mood etc but when i am etc he doesn't want to

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

How often is he in the mood?

Answer 18

Asker

5 months of no sex so how often do you think?

N... E... V... E... R

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

Dang that is worse than I thought. I would get him to a doctor stat to have his T levels checked.

Answer 20

Asker

He would never agree to that

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

Why not it is just a doctor's appointment?

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