Why is he doing this?

Question

I was talking to a much older guy who knew that i liked him. But i didn't want to date him due to the huge age difference (22 years). So now every time he texts me, he always starts off with "hey baby". The day before birthday, he said he would meet up and text me on the day of my bday. But then when my b day came, he didn't show up. He did text me "happy birthday baby!, Enjoy your day! Call shortly!" with kisses. But then he didn't call.

I'm just confused as to what he's trying to do. I DON'T WANT TO DATE HIM. Let me be straight up and clear to y'all cuz i know you will be making a huge fuss about it.

But why the hell is he just doing all of this? calling me baby every time we text and sending kisses? I'd rather him just treat me as a friend. Is he just trying to tease me for attention

Answer 1

GiventoFly01

Xper 6

He probably wants you to change your mind. Im in the same situation with an older women. I dont want to date her, but I really have a thing for her

Answer 2

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

"I like him"
"I don't want to date him"
So what is it you want then?

Answer 3

Fukaroo | 144 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

If you don't want him talking to you like that tell him.

Answer 4

msc545 | 361 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Sounds like he just likes you, perhaps as a friend.

Answer 5

nikooo0ooo

Xper 5

If you didn't wanna date him you wouldn't care.

Arabella_Rose

27 d
i would care because he's obviously lying which is disrespectful.
nikooo0ooo

27 d
Probably is lying, older guys are a more evolved version of us, they're patient. Young guys will just try to fuck u immediately, older guys play the waiting game, they don't got time for some young immature girl. U sure he ain't playing the waiting game? I'm sure he's a lot smarter than u, he's already got u scrambling for answers on the internet, I'd say whatever he's doing is working.
Arabella_Rose

27 d
I think you’re too hopeful. Because even if he wanted me to date him. I would just end up dumping him for a younger man eventually. I just don’t see a future with him. He’s too old
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nikooo0ooo

27 d
I don't know, you don't seem like you're using him for money which is odd, very odd. I'm sure there's good looking young guys who you could date who's weeners don't look like disgusting banana peels. Gross.
Arabella_Rose

27 d
I think you’re mentally ill because you’re just accusing me of random things without proof
nikooo0ooo

27 d
When did I accuse you of anything
Arabella_Rose

27 d
You just said I’m using him for money. Where the fuck did u even get that from
nikooo0ooo

27 d
You can't read for shit you fucking dyslexic dumbass
nikooo0ooo

27 d
I'm losing IQ points talking to u I'm out of here
nikooo0ooo

27 d
Have fun sucking on old man balls freaky creep
Arabella_Rose

27 d
He’s actually super hot for his age
nikooo0ooo

27 d
y'all both ugly tho
nikooo0ooo

27 d
He got erectile distinction and u have freaky soft old man weener infatuation
Arabella_Rose

27 d
Nahh I have never ever liked a guy before in my life except for him.

Answer 6

Arabella_Rose

i would care because he's obviously lying which is disrespectful.

Answer 7

nikooo0ooo

Probably is lying, older guys are a more evolved version of us, they're patient. Young guys will just try to fuck u immediately, older guys play the waiting game, they don't got time for some young immature girl. U sure he ain't playing the waiting game? I'm sure he's a lot smarter than u, he's already got u scrambling for answers on the internet, I'd say whatever he's doing is working.

Answer 8

Arabella_Rose

I think you’re too hopeful. Because even if he wanted me to date him. I would just end up dumping him for a younger man eventually. I just don’t see a future with him. He’s too old

Answer 9

nikooo0ooo

I don't know, you don't seem like you're using him for money which is odd, very odd. I'm sure there's good looking young guys who you could date who's weeners don't look like disgusting banana peels. Gross.