Is this an insult or a compliment?

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The other day while sitting at home, joking, playing cards and games and watching movies with my boyfriend I mentioned to him that if it wasn’t for the pandemic and clubs were back open or still open in our state/city, that going to the club would be something for us to to do and he just looks at me laughs and says “Nah. You’re more of the wine and dine. Sit in the house or go somewhere much more laid back kind of girl. The club isn’t for you.” I didn’t know if he just said that because he feels I won’t look right on his arms, next to him in such a public setting or if that’s his way of saying I’m boring. I’m not into the club scene but I have went not many times but a few times just to do something and get out of the house.

Answer 1

Skankhunt | 52 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

It's was not an insult or a compliment. It was just an opinion. It looks like you are an introvert, because you like to stay home, and that perfectly fine. Being an introvert isn't bad, you can consider it as a compliment, it's just how you interpret it.

Answer 2

spartan55 | 13.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You girls are such sensitive things. I think it was neither, sounds like he was being matter of fact.

Answer 3

JamesTara

Xper 3

I would say the same if I had a girlfriend I dont want to see her in a place full with hyenas looking for a quick hookup. I never get the excitement of a club you go there drink something maybe dance some time then its 5AM and ill be like did I really waste my sleep standing here for nothing? I like going out to eat or just sit down with friends more than going to a club unless I was a good dancer and wanted to show off.

Is this an insult or a compliment?

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