What would you do If you were me?

Question

So, I have a crush on someone who works in the same company as I but different departments.
I always had my eyes on him but only as a crush thing but after I had a business talk with him I literally fell for him (he's 100% my type )
I noticed him staring at me multiple times but not sure if it's just in my head.
I added him on FB but we never talked I commented on his new photo he replied and that's all.

Now I don't know how should I initiate a conversation with him without making it obvious that I'm into him at least til I know if he's single or not.

Please tell me what's the right thing to do as I've never experienced this before.

Updates:

24 d

PS 1: please note that we are from a small conservative town in Japan and it's not quite often where a girl confesses suddenly to a guy.

Answer 1

UnpopularOpinion5

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this is jus kinda blowing my mind that a girl is intrested in a guy romantically or sexually... or even at all, what a rare sighting!

i thought this kinda thing doesn't happen,... if it does y'all do a very very good job at hiding it,
i think any guy would be flattered and over the moon to find out a girl has a crush on him... doesn't matter who it is... jus tell him... he will love it, i know i would

Shizuoko

24 d
If he already has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd like it he'll probably reject me and it'll be uncomfortable between us don't you think so?

Answer 2

Shizuoko

If he already has a girlfriend, I don't think he'd like it he'll probably reject me and it'll be uncomfortable between us don't you think so?

Answer 3

naraku | 277 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I understand.

Therefore, you have to give this guy some signs you are interested in him so that he will ask you out if he is interested.
Just give him some nice smiles and see if you can find something interesting to talk about together. It doesn't matter if it's a movie, sport or even the weather. It's all to start a conversation.

Shizuoko

24 d
Thank you for your feeddback! I highly appreciate your help.
Having said that, It is how to start talking to him is what scared me the most because I have no idea how to figure out whether he is interested in me or not and ofcourse I don't want to embarrass myself.
He is really a nice and wellbehaved guy that's why I don't want to lose this chance.
naraku

23 d
I understand.

Sometimes, it's best to just start with some easy conversation.
Even if you just say to him " Hi , how is your day today?"
Something like this is good because he can answer your question. Then maybe he will ask you too.
It's important to just start with conversation like this. First, it is an innocent conversation right? ☺️
Second, if the conversation goes well then it's easy to build your conversation with him a little each day. If the conversation does not go well then it only seems an innocent conversation.

Feel free to let me know how you feel.

がんばってね！
Shizuoko

23 d
Thank you so much Naraku
You have helped a lot and I can't tell how much I'm glad I had this talk with you 😊
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naraku

22 d
You are welcome Shizuoko! Good luck and let me know if you need anymore advice ☺️
Shizuoko

21 d
Naraku may I ask you for another advice?
naraku

20 d
Of course! Either ask here or feel free to message me ☺️
Shizuoko

20 d
I tried to message you but I can't 😓

Answer 4

Shizuoko

Thank you for your feeddback! I highly appreciate your help.
Having said that, It is how to start talking to him is what scared me the most because I have no idea how to figure out whether he is interested in me or not and ofcourse I don't want to embarrass myself.
He is really a nice and wellbehaved guy that's why I don't want to lose this chance.

Answer 5

naraku

I understand.

Sometimes, it's best to just start with some easy conversation.
Even if you just say to him " Hi , how is your day today?"
Something like this is good because he can answer your question. Then maybe he will ask you too.
It's important to just start with conversation like this. First, it is an innocent conversation right? ☺️
Second, if the conversation goes well then it's easy to build your conversation with him a little each day. If the conversation does not go well then it only seems an innocent conversation.

Feel free to let me know how you feel.

がんばってね！

Answer 6

Shizuoko

Thank you so much Naraku
You have helped a lot and I can't tell how much I'm glad I had this talk with you 😊

Answer 7

naraku

You are welcome Shizuoko! Good luck and let me know if you need anymore advice ☺️

Answer 8

Shizuoko

Naraku may I ask you for another advice?

Answer 9

naraku

Of course! Either ask here or feel free to message me ☺️

Answer 10

Shizuoko

I tried to message you but I can't 😓

Answer 11

JamesTara

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It depends. Dont force it tho. Maybe if you talk again in real life reconsider it all and if you think he really is the one ask him to go drink something.

Answer 12

Brendan90

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Due to society and how men work. I suggest you give him hints and he approaches you. Chances of a better and more fulfilling relationship for you if you get the chance

Answer 13

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I wouldn't. If it doesn't work out, you'll have to find a new job

Shizuoko

24 d
I know! I've always had the "no personal relationships at workplace" but this time I couldn't help it he's really all I imagined in a man 😖
In_Trance

24 d
Good luck

Answer 14

Shizuoko

I know! I've always had the "no personal relationships at workplace" but this time I couldn't help it he's really all I imagined in a man 😖

Answer 15

In_Trance

Good luck

Answer 16

nikoooo0ooo

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Drop your pen, bend over and fully flash him ur butthole

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