Extremely upset just found out an ex of 6/8 months has lied about his whole identity his name etc?

Question

What to do? Should I message to tell him how upset I am, extremely lost for words and hurting but there’s no way I’ll ever speak to him after the message I send. I found this out when when he gave a friend a different name online etc

Answer 1

DannyUk2017 | 104 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Are you sure that He didn't gave his friend an Alias? Maybe you know the Real name, and that friend only know's the Alias... Have u thought about that? Is He using same name Everywhere? Like Social media? Did you ever "seen" any Documentation that proves that Actually used an Alias instead of his Real Name?
Did you try to actually talk to him to see what is the Actual truth? Maybe He is Hiding from someone/something... maybe he wants to make himself "lost" from some bad experiences that he had.
One thing is Not Good here... that by not been "clean" towards you, you could have end up with "nasty surprises" if he really used an alias and not his real name, like...: could be a killer, could be a con that got out of jail, could be a stalker, a predator, etc, etc...

Zoe_9

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Hi, I met him on online dating app. we met there. Spoke for several months etc we broke up not long ago for other reasons

He went online was talking to my friend and gave a different name etc I was extremely shocked and I cannot find him online with his actual name or false name so it’s so weird what do I even say to this man
DannyUk2017

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Right. Well yeah... in this case its hard to find "that" person as On line can have as many aliases as posible, so i understand what u saying... then, that means only one thing... he was just a player all along! That means he never been truthfull to u even after all these months, and God knows how many othe "women/girls" he had, besides you... so means one thing... He is Not Worth Your Time!
Zoe_9

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Is it worth exposing him and telling him I know the truth etc etc then saying wishing you all the best etc?
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DannyUk2017

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Could do! If it hurt you in any way, but if he didn't hurt you to the extend that affected you and everyone around you, then i don't he's worth your time, as you're better than that 😉, you know what they say: what goes around, comes around, so i guess you can tell him that you know all about it, and "kiss" him goodbye and "slam the door" on ur way out! You could leave him..."thinking, biting his nails, squashing his brains out" abiut what happened and what he did...🌹
Zoe_9

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Thank you ever so much means a lot haha! Could you think of anything powerful I could say to him any tips or examples🙈
DannyUk2017

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Simple tip! "If you like/love me" i need to know the truth! Who you are and stuff! Straighten up to me, and we can go forward, keep lyeing to me... and OFF i go! Simple! Just stand ur ground, and ahow him that if he really wants a relationship, he needs to be Straight forward with you, otherwise... you're OUT! and then you'll see the result! If he really wants you then he will do it, if not, then... its His Loss!.

Answer 2

Zoe_9

Hi, I met him on online dating app. we met there. Spoke for several months etc we broke up not long ago for other reasons

He went online was talking to my friend and gave a different name etc I was extremely shocked and I cannot find him online with his actual name or false name so it’s so weird what do I even say to this man

Answer 3

DannyUk2017

Right. Well yeah... in this case its hard to find "that" person as On line can have as many aliases as posible, so i understand what u saying... then, that means only one thing... he was just a player all along! That means he never been truthfull to u even after all these months, and God knows how many othe "women/girls" he had, besides you... so means one thing... He is Not Worth Your Time!

Answer 4

Zoe_9

Is it worth exposing him and telling him I know the truth etc etc then saying wishing you all the best etc?

Answer 5

DannyUk2017

Could do! If it hurt you in any way, but if he didn't hurt you to the extend that affected you and everyone around you, then i don't he's worth your time, as you're better than that 😉, you know what they say: what goes around, comes around, so i guess you can tell him that you know all about it, and "kiss" him goodbye and "slam the door" on ur way out! You could leave him..."thinking, biting his nails, squashing his brains out" abiut what happened and what he did...🌹

Answer 6

Zoe_9

Thank you ever so much means a lot haha! Could you think of anything powerful I could say to him any tips or examples🙈

Answer 7

DannyUk2017

Simple tip! "If you like/love me" i need to know the truth! Who you are and stuff! Straighten up to me, and we can go forward, keep lyeing to me... and OFF i go! Simple! Just stand ur ground, and ahow him that if he really wants a relationship, he needs to be Straight forward with you, otherwise... you're OUT! and then you'll see the result! If he really wants you then he will do it, if not, then... its His Loss!.

Answer 8

spartan55 | 13.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

And what would be the point of that? If it's to make yourself feel better then do it. If you think he will give a fuck you are wrong.

Answer 9

virgin20 | 80 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Leave it. Don't go back and exhaust yourself with emotions if he isn't worth it.
Gotta just move on look forward not back

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