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Why is it so difficult to find a good guy that doesn’t want just a hook up?

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  • DannyUk2017
    DannyUk2017   |  153 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    Because the "insecurity" makes Desire/Boundaries difficult, and instead of seting them up, to what we want and what we don't, we just "dive first" to whats available, either is sexual, either is emotional, either are both.. you might ask... Why?
    Because 80% of females are "exposing/showing" themselfs more sexualy than just plain!
    Either they show them bodily parts, either the naughty side, either teasing... all this leads to "sexual thinking" first, than rather the "person" itself, the inner person, beyond the "look"...

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  • Makeushiver
    Makeushiver   |  230 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    Well it seems like hooking up has become the way to meet people. If that's the case then the best way to approach it would be to hook up and see who is the most likeable of those you hook up with. Hopefully you'll also find a guy who can show you why sex can be at least as enjoyable for women as it is for men, Most younger guys don't have the patience for a woman's longer response time but you can lay some ground rules down on how you like to feel sexually as far as what you want him to do. If girls were as insistent on getting head the way guys can bem it would make many women mch happier

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    • anonbrunette99
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      I can’t really hook up bc casual sex isn’t my thing and well, I wouldn’t want to raise my body count lol I don't know

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  • wingattebaby16
    wingattebaby16   |  229 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    coz there are so many of us girls out there that will Accept a hook up instead of a relationship.

    So the guys Expect us to want a hook up.

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  • JamesTara
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    I dont really talk to women since i focus on my future but most of us are done with all that BS. Women nowadays play games and hard to get. Men nowadays dont want this nonsense and just get whats easiest to get for a quick hookup. In my experience most relations between 20-30 years old end because they only liked eachother because of lust and not because of their personality. Real love comes when you get with someone not because of their looks, culture, skincolor it comes when you meet someone and feel like you want to share your life with them. When you're 20-30 people are young and its no joke most men cheat i have 27 guys in my circle and I ain't going to lie they all cheated they just want different girls and different vibes because they're young. My advise is dont rush it we are all still young and have other things to accomplish. My father always said make sure your financial situation is good and good women will come with time without looking for it.

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  • Dchrls78104
    Dchrls78104   |  1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    As a guy who wants a serious relationship, not a hook-up, I would say it's difficult to find such a person because:
    1. These days being a guy who's not into hook-ups is not popular.
    2. You say you want a serious relationship, but are you willing to be faithful and loyal and do what it takes to maintain a serious relationship? Many girls are not.
    3. The system is heavily weighted against the guy in a relationship, so many guys shy away from what they think are the risks and complications of a serious relationship (like having to pay for alimony and child support when it's not his child, being put out of the guy's house by the girl).

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  • magiusX26
    magiusX26   |  930 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    i dare you to try getting to know a guy's personality only. you and he never exchange pics or descriptions of how either of you look. if you find him as a good guy, set up a meet up and see how well you get along then. you would be allowed to say race, height, and weight only. everything else has to be nonphysical.

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  • Anonymous
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    Why is it difficult to find a girl who isn’t a loose whore that expects me to pursue her while she’s messing around with other guys? Most girls these days aren’t worth pursuing for anything but a fuck. Me personally i dont hookup but I can see why men do

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  • Wewladdy
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    Maybe you should try not being easy and going for boys who want nothing but sex.

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  • cloudsurfer87
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    Im asking the same question about women where did these days go? Dates laughs fun innocence hugs holding kissing tru proof u want each other

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  • Mark987
    Mark987   |  259 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    It's not that hard... we do exist you are looking in the wrong area

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    • Mark987
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      anonbrunette99 were you asking me a question?

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  • Bobby_Turboto
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    That guy exist, butmostfemales actually don't lethimout of the friendzone

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  • Anonymous
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    all guys want to hook up. why would you not want to do that for a guy you like?

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    • anonbrunette99
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      Because why should I? I’m not gonna give it up unless we’re exclusive

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  • AlexanderAnttila
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    Looking in the wrong circles perhaps.

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  • chriscdi
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    its a lot to ask for noeadays

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    • anonbrunette99
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      but I see everyone else in relationships so it sucks but we moveeeeeeee

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    • chriscdi
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      yes but you aren't sure how long they last tho now do you?

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  • Fuentes
    Fuentes   |  3.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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    Hit me up then or go on Tinder thats easy

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    • Fuentes
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      Wait i misread this i thought u wanted to hook up nvm dont hit me up lol

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    • _ohhey_
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      LMAO

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  • Dave31989
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    because desperation is an ugly color

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