Can you read this text and tell me if the girl sounds upset or jealous?

Question

Guy and I are close friends. He’s trying to get a date with Tiffany. She keeps bailing last minute. Convo:

Him- Hey so Tiffany text me today and opened up. I’ll probably get to meet up with her today.

Me- lol okay

Him- Just keeping u updated lol. She opened up that her ex beat her so bad she had to get him arrested. And her mom has cancer. but she opened up to me

Me- lots of drama

Him- yep she got a lot. I’m still going to give it a try lol. This explains why she was wasn’t meeting up

Me - sure why not

Him- cool

Answer 1

CoolGuyJoe | 136 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

It sounds like you are avoiding saying what's on your mind and are only confusing him. 🤷‍♂️

Asker

23 d
Lol I was. This chick is playing games in my mind. But he’s never had a girlfriend so I’m letting him learn on his own.
CoolGuyJoe

23 d
I hear you. I've been in that spot before with a friend. When it comes to dating and potential heartbreak, you actually might want to be up front with information if he seems like a responsible guy. Have you tried talking with him about it?
Asker

23 d
I only made a comment that I was shocked he gave her 5 chances already to meet up. But he said she’s just an option and he was going to see where it went because he has nothing else going on. So his mind is made up. I’ll just let it be.

Now she gives this elaborate reasoning and got his empathy. So I can’t say anything lol

Answer 2

Asker

Lol I was. This chick is playing games in my mind. But he’s never had a girlfriend so I’m letting him learn on his own.

Answer 3

CoolGuyJoe

I hear you. I've been in that spot before with a friend. When it comes to dating and potential heartbreak, you actually might want to be up front with information if he seems like a responsible guy. Have you tried talking with him about it?

Answer 4

Asker

I only made a comment that I was shocked he gave her 5 chances already to meet up. But he said she’s just an option and he was going to see where it went because he has nothing else going on. So his mind is made up. I’ll just let it be.

Now she gives this elaborate reasoning and got his empathy. So I can’t say anything lol

Answer 5

Anonymous

well your responses are very dry, it sounds like you aren't interested. if that's how you usually talk then I wouldn't think anything of it. But as a stranger reading the texts, it does seem like you're upset/jealous, yes.

Asker

23 d
Lol I was annoyed. This chick is playing games in my mind. But he’s never had a girlfriend so I’m letting him learn on his own. But I also didn’t want to say anything too negative and ruin this for him.
Opinion Owner

23 d
I def get that. I would personally stay out of it though. let him figure that out. because what if there's that 10% chance maybe she isn't playing games, you know?
Asker

23 d
Yea for sure. But bailing on him 5x isn’t cool. That’s why I kept it short. But I also was worried I came off jealous or upset lol. Granted- he probably didn’t even notice.
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Opinion Owner

23 d
he definitely did not notice because his responses to you sound normal. so don't worry, you're good.
Asker

23 d
Yeah. Just a bit jealous TBH. And also sad because even though we can’t be romantically together... I feel like our friendship will crumble when he gets a girlfriend

Answer 6

Asker

Lol I was annoyed. This chick is playing games in my mind. But he’s never had a girlfriend so I’m letting him learn on his own. But I also didn’t want to say anything too negative and ruin this for him.

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

I def get that. I would personally stay out of it though. let him figure that out. because what if there's that 10% chance maybe she isn't playing games, you know?

Answer 8

Asker

Yea for sure. But bailing on him 5x isn’t cool. That’s why I kept it short. But I also was worried I came off jealous or upset lol. Granted- he probably didn’t even notice.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

he definitely did not notice because his responses to you sound normal. so don't worry, you're good.

Answer 10

Asker

Yeah. Just a bit jealous TBH. And also sad because even though we can’t be romantically together... I feel like our friendship will crumble when he gets a girlfriend

Answer 11

Dave31989 | 337 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

guy "friend"

what are you, 5?

GROW THE FUCK UP

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