Do guys realize how much ghosting hurts?

Question

I bet when a guy is ghosted he doesn't wallow in self pity for days and just want closure. I mean I was talking to this guy for months and then "poof" Nothing out of the ordinary happened, but he just stopped responding to my messages. It's been 5 days. He sucks! This is such a cowards way out. Sorry for the rant, I'm just mad and sad.

Answer 1

Majestical_Psyche

Xper 5

Did you 2 have the same interests?
I think how you can really tell is in the beginning when you start talking, By how much time he is actually spending with you. Not much even when you did? Then it won’t look good in the future if that’s so.

Friendship is the true connection, That’s the whole idea of a relationship, same interests, lots of bonding, etc.

“The Art Of Seduction“ is really a great book, It’s simple and powerful.
it can give you a much deeper understanding of relationships.
you won’t regret at least giving it a try.
There’s a free audiobook on YouTube also 😊💖

VirgoLady

22 d
We had a big time sexual connection, but like I said we only went out once and the rest of the almost 5 months, we just messaged. I should tell you that I actually dated him for a short time over 10 years ago, so we kinda already knew each other.
Majestical_Psyche

22 d
A person in lust is harder to control, And once satisfied may easily leave you.

Meaningful partners take their time, creating enchantments and a ‘bond of love’ (friendship, and not lust).

Seduction is a game of psychology and not beauty.
It is in the grasp of anyone to be a master at “the game”.
Majestical_Psyche

22 d
This is all from the book of: The Art of Seduction.
Took notes of the useful things, I hope this will help 💗
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VirgoLady

22 d
I'll check it out. Thanks! I've already used my free one though:)
Majestical_Psyche

21 d
What do you mean you already used your free one?
It’s on YouTube, It’s completely free to listen to.
Majestical_Psyche

21 d
But remember, creating a meaningful bond of friendship, same interests, Will create a deeper bondage of love.
A person and lust is always harder to control.
VirgoLady

21 d
I looked it up on yourtube and it said it was audible. It's fine i just made another Audible account! I'm going to listen to it tonight. Does he give advice for both men and woman?
VirgoLady

21 d
Nevermind! That was an ad at the top lol.
Majestical_Psyche

21 d
Which ever you prefer 😊
and yes, both for men and woman.
It’s quite a interesting voice to listen to 😂 but really, It really is powerful and simple.
VirgoLady

21 d
Well I'll let you know tomorrow how far I got! Thanks again!
Majestical_Psyche

21 d
Yes, please!! I would love to know what you think of it ☺️

Answer 2

VirgoLady

We had a big time sexual connection, but like I said we only went out once and the rest of the almost 5 months, we just messaged. I should tell you that I actually dated him for a short time over 10 years ago, so we kinda already knew each other.

Answer 3

Majestical_Psyche

A person in lust is harder to control, And once satisfied may easily leave you.

Meaningful partners take their time, creating enchantments and a ‘bond of love’ (friendship, and not lust).

Seduction is a game of psychology and not beauty.
It is in the grasp of anyone to be a master at “the game”.

Answer 4

Majestical_Psyche

This is all from the book of: The Art of Seduction.
Took notes of the useful things, I hope this will help 💗

Answer 5

VirgoLady

I'll check it out. Thanks! I've already used my free one though:)

Answer 6

Majestical_Psyche

What do you mean you already used your free one?
It’s on YouTube, It’s completely free to listen to.

Answer 7

Majestical_Psyche

But remember, creating a meaningful bond of friendship, same interests, Will create a deeper bondage of love.
A person and lust is always harder to control.

Answer 8

VirgoLady

I looked it up on yourtube and it said it was audible. It's fine i just made another Audible account! I'm going to listen to it tonight. Does he give advice for both men and woman?

Answer 9

VirgoLady

Nevermind! That was an ad at the top lol.

Answer 10

Majestical_Psyche

Which ever you prefer 😊
and yes, both for men and woman.
It’s quite a interesting voice to listen to 😂 but really, It really is powerful and simple.

Answer 11

VirgoLady

Well I'll let you know tomorrow how far I got! Thanks again!

Answer 12

Majestical_Psyche

Yes, please!! I would love to know what you think of it ☺️

Answer 13

OneManOnly01

Xper 5

You keep trying, that’s your biggest mistake. Stop it and move on, he might come back later and if you’re willing then accept him then but DO let him know that you wouldn’t accept such behavior twice

Majestical_Psyche

22 d
You’re right dude, but I don't know about giving him a second chance.
There is better out there.

Answer 14

Majestical_Psyche

You’re right dude, but I don't know about giving him a second chance.
There is better out there.

Answer 15

alice55 | 932 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

5 days is nothing he could just have tons of work to do... Or someone fell sick in his family, there's many many stuff that can happen and 5 day is definitely not a lot of time.

VirgoLady

22 d
It is when you talk every single day. He said he would touch base with me on Thursday night and bring me up to speed and I haven't heard from him since. And of course I stupidly texted every other day to ask what was up.

Answer 16

VirgoLady

It is when you talk every single day. He said he would touch base with me on Thursday night and bring me up to speed and I haven't heard from him since. And of course I stupidly texted every other day to ask what was up.

Answer 17

eegs224

Xper 1

Trust me, we get ghosted plenty enough, way too much infact

Answer 18

Anonymous

Guys get it just as much if not more.
You should try being an average guy on a dating app.
You could write a woman the sweetest most heartfelt message and they just ignore it like you don't exist.

Answer 19

Anonymous

I think that it hurts both guys and girls. Maybe not equally though

Answer 20

Dave31989 | 339 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

same with women

we HATE when you ghost us

Answer 21

yyyuuuiii

Xper 4

Damn son

Answer 22

Anonymous

Its happened to me, it hurts, I know.

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